Hi,
I'm currently an intern at a Psychiatry program and am doing fine in the program. I don't have any complaints about the program. My husband (who is the main breadwinner for us) has a job that requires him to be in a different state and we have done the long distance thing for one year now, with hopes that he would be able to get to move here after I had matched, year later , but it does not look like that is a possibility anymore. I am also much older than my co-residents and the time for me to have kids is approaching fast.
I've been very vague about my interest to transfer to my PD, just to test it out and he does not seem very supportive of the idea at all and tries to push me to transfer for a child fellowship (which would mean waiting 2 years) and fast track in that. This something I'm not even interested in to begin with. I think this has to do with the fact that they have had a few people transfer over the years and are currently going through some cutbacks in the program as well.
I really don't want to jeopardize my position in anyway, but at the same time, I don't want to put a strain on my marriage. This has been weighing very heavily on my mind. I was wondering if someone who has been in a similar position can shed some light or give me some advice?
I really enjoy Psychiatry but the possibility of not being allowed to transfer to another psychiatry program, has even made me consider just switching specialties to (FM or Preventive medicine) just so I can be with my husband and in-laws.
Is this type of attitude typical to begin with,? I mean no PD would want a resident who's unhappy or miserable in their program. Let's say if I find a spot (after the match) and bring it up to my PD, surely, they wouldn't just stop me from going would they?
Thanks for any feedback.
I'm currently an intern at a Psychiatry program and am doing fine in the program. I don't have any complaints about the program. My husband (who is the main breadwinner for us) has a job that requires him to be in a different state and we have done the long distance thing for one year now, with hopes that he would be able to get to move here after I had matched, year later , but it does not look like that is a possibility anymore. I am also much older than my co-residents and the time for me to have kids is approaching fast.
I've been very vague about my interest to transfer to my PD, just to test it out and he does not seem very supportive of the idea at all and tries to push me to transfer for a child fellowship (which would mean waiting 2 years) and fast track in that. This something I'm not even interested in to begin with. I think this has to do with the fact that they have had a few people transfer over the years and are currently going through some cutbacks in the program as well.
I really don't want to jeopardize my position in anyway, but at the same time, I don't want to put a strain on my marriage. This has been weighing very heavily on my mind. I was wondering if someone who has been in a similar position can shed some light or give me some advice?
I really enjoy Psychiatry but the possibility of not being allowed to transfer to another psychiatry program, has even made me consider just switching specialties to (FM or Preventive medicine) just so I can be with my husband and in-laws.
Is this type of attitude typical to begin with,? I mean no PD would want a resident who's unhappy or miserable in their program. Let's say if I find a spot (after the match) and bring it up to my PD, surely, they wouldn't just stop me from going would they?
Thanks for any feedback.