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I agree that people with attitudes and personalities that are totally incompatible with compassionate medical care for all patients shouldn't be admitted, but some interviewers are better at spotting the jerks than other interviewers. It won't change. Hopefully, your class is like mine - at least the percentage of fools and bigots is noticeably smaller than what is found in the population at large.
But I found it just so immature and disrespectful when people say crap like "why do we always have to hear from the fa*s about how bad their life is because of aids". I heard a few "that's so sick" and "it's his own fault so why should I care comments".
Judging from the group that was making the comments - a few rural kids from one horse towns - I understood why they were being so stupid about it.
and these aids remarks are not the only thing. We also have a couple of guys who are VERY VERY ORTHODOX muslim. And I have overheard several times in elevators, the bathroom, comments like "why do they let so many chicks into med school?", "it's totally unprofessional and disgusting" (that the girls were wearing tank tops one day for one of our labs!), "the chicks will fail out anyway so we should have more male students" type of crap come out of their mouths.
Clearly, we all have our own preconceived notions and generalizations we carry with us. You for example, don't characterize the first group, and I'm assuming, as white Christian guys who are close minded because they are Christian. The Muslims guys however, say stupid things because they are Muslim. It's like saying, "a guy was walking down the street without an umbrella" versus, "a black guy was walking down the street without an umbrella." Black is not a necessary adjective in this sentence, as it is irrelevant to his umbrella problem. Unless, his umbrella problem is due to being black, which clearly, it is not. Bigotry is bigotry regardless of who it comes from.
The reason I specified "Muslims" in the second case is taht they infact are orthodox muslims who leave class to pray and are very disrespectful to women...and I think that at this point 99.9% of the world will agree that orthodox muslims are bred (brainwashed) to disrespect women. I have yet to meet an ortho muslim who isn't disrespectful...and I've known many...including going to a dinner for my work where the islamic dude's wife sat alone at a table while 'the men' sat together to discuss 'business' which turned out to be 'the world cup'. Needless to say, I left early, because I was very disgusted.
How are you going to treat a patient who is homophobic or Muslim?
The difference here is that my notions are not 'preconceived because of my parents raising me to be a hateful jerk', they are based on the facts I have experienced in this life.
The poster above suggested getting them expelled. Now there's absolutely no doubt their behavior wasn't professional and they should be admonished if for nothing else voicing their sentiment at a very inappropriate time. But they're allowed to think what they want. As long as they treat their patients with respect (and you have yet to see them do otherwise, even though you may have reason to think that they will), their personal beliefs are frankly no ones business. As long as patient care isn't compromised, it doesn't matter.
We're all going to make fun of our patients to our colleagues for some reason at some point in time. Some of the times, it will be PC; most of the time probably not so much.
In my very brief clinical experience (ED scribe for a year), I found that physicians and nurses can make some of the most unprofessional and inappropriate comments that I wouldn't have even thought. Is it tacky and technically inappropriate? Of course. But it's also because they deal with a nonstop onslaught of BS from day one and have to learn how to cope or they'll never function effectively (so I'm told, and I believe it). At the same time, I've never met people more dedicated to saving lives and working their tails off for the benefit of really sick people in dire straits. We all say and do things that aren't very becoming, it seems that where you say it and how it effects your treatment of others that's the key.
These are colleagues not patients.
As a med student you should stay low or send anonymous letters to whomever is in charge.
As an attending make sure you expose and get these people expelled. There are enough people who wants a career in medicine, so we do not need these people in our profession. As a doctor you should have a higher standard of behaviour than act in this way.
It is sad that the application process can't find better ways to expose these people when there is such a process in place meant to weed them out. Instead of people describing "their worst characteristics" and other useless questions interviewers need to start finding more novel approaches in exposing them. And asking "U liek gayzz, hehe???" which seem to be the way interviewers do these things is just incompetence. If most interviewers would be asked the question "What's your worst characteristic?" they should answer "I am useless at conducting interviews and just wasting everybodys time and money."
Yet another thread where the OP decries racism, then turns out to be racist himself . . .
What is it with you and getting people expelled? This isn't junior high school. You don't get expelled for being a d*** or a bigot or a racist or an abortionist or a pro-lifer.
You get expelled for cheating and sneaking drugs and punching patients. How do you propose figuring out who harbors a little prejudice? There was a guy at LECOM who wanted to import a child to molest and start a new society. If you can't catch that, how are you going to catch a little homophobia? I crack a couple gay and black jokes every once in a while, but that doesn't mean I'm a bigot or a racist...
I just ask that people have a tiny bit of humor about themselves.
Thanks for clarifying to me what "weird" sexuality is. I indulge in however much homosexual I feel like, regardless of what you (or your book) think.I have to admit.. the idea of two men engaging in anal intercourse is an unpleasant thought and is even.. and see if you can follow... "weird" to me.
What is the importance in labeling it deviance?Sexual deviance is part of our society and its called deviance for a reason.
Yeah, and then just crack a little joke about them when they are not listening. Especially if they're gay or black.I'll always treat patients the same no matter what,
Tired is not a good role model for a future physician. His sexually frustrated whining on nurses should give you a hint of that.but, like Tired said,
I'd rather have the psysician talk to me than behind my back.that doesn't mean I'm not going to voice my opinion in private.
C'mon. Get off your self-righteous horse and try to remember that you are not God's gift to medicine and you're not the Pope.
... You've been in med school for one week and you are already an expert in how medical school works? You think you can dress up like Hitler and march the corridors without getting expelled?
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I think you should focus more on the needs of the patients than your "rights as physician."
Good catch. Too bad it wasn't invoked in conjunction with Burnett's Law.Goodwin's Law in full effect!
"As a Usenet discussion grows longer, the probability of a comparison involving Nazis or Hitler approaches one."
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Godwin's_law
.Then junior high school has higher expectations of it's students than med school. How do do you know anyway? You've been in med school for one week and you are already an expert in how medical school works? You think you can dress up like Hitler and march the corridors without getting expelled?
Godwin's Law.. yesssssss..
and because I don't have my head in my butt. It's obvious that you don't get expelled for something like this. If you call a patient a ***, you're not in good shape, but having a laugh about a little butt-lovin never hurt anyone.
Yes, it does.
Seems like we catched one here.
You can't possibly be from America.
Sure you can ask and I hate your "gay & black jokes".
Good. If you want, I can PM you as many as you would like... you can use them to build yourself a bubble of self-righteousness
Thanks for clarifying to me what "weird" sexuality is. I indulge in however much homosexual I feel like, regardless of what you (or your book) think.
Cool man. I never said anything about religion though. I just think it's weird for men to have anal sex. And again... you have to be foreign.
What is the importance in labeling it deviance?
You'll have to ask the APA about that.
Yeah, and then just crack a little joke about them when they are not listening. Especially if they're gay or black.
You clearly missed my point. Being gay or black doesn't matter to me really. I just find humor in gay/black/mexican/white/man/woman/chinese/insert ethnicity or group here jokes. Not because I honestly believe those things to be true, but because I have, and I'm sure you don't understand this, a sense of humor.
Tired is not a good role model for a future physician. His sexually frustrated whining on nurses should give you a hint of that.
You are though right?
I'd rather have the psysician talk to me than behind my back.
I would imagine that your psysician can speak to you trancendentally.
Don't know where you got the idea that was my intent.
I think you should focus more on the needs of the patients than your "rights as physician."
I think you should focus more on becoming a physician (psysician) than on whether medical students laugh at gay jokes.
WHat the hell is going on in admissions? I just feel this is not safe - how is the sexist islamic guy going to behave when he has to treat a 13 year old girl? How is the homophobic chick going to act when her first patient is a gay man with AIDS? It's just ridiculous!
Expelling is sort of extreme, but as students trained to be medical professionals where we're given a good bit of trust and autonomy, this sort of behavior does need to be addressed, and I do think the OP is right to be seriously concerned about such things. We med students are entitled to our opinions, no matter how brazen or polarizing they are, but if it's something bound to raise an eyebrow, they should keep it private and outside the bounds of their work/learning environment. People can be listening to convos inadvertently when you least expect it.
Although, in a lighter context, this can lead to some very humorous situations. One of my group members in small group gave our professor some very unflattering remarks. As she finished, she pointed towards the door to make emphasis, and as she did, the professor happened to walk in at that same moment. After an awkward silence, the professor and our group carried on a normal conversation, but I could tell everyone, including the professor, was trying to contain their surprise.
I have a feeling if such disparaging comments were made about rednecks with guns or white Christians there'd be no such outrage.
The poster above suggested getting them expelled. Now there's absolutely no doubt their behavior wasn't professional and they should be admonished if for nothing else voicing their sentiment at a very inappropriate time. But they're allowed to think what they want. As long as they treat their patients with respect (and you have yet to see them do otherwise, even though you may have reason to think that they will), their personal beliefs are frankly no ones business. As long as patient care isn't compromised, it doesn't matter.
There is a time a place for humor as long as one is professional when it comes to patient care. One of the great things about becoming an adult is that one has the freedom to "think" anything that comes to mind but open mouth or writing these things is an entirely different affair.
You think you can dress up like Hitler and march the corridors without getting expelled?
As an attending make sure you expose and get these people expelled. ."
For the 348723987th time, Islam is a religion, not a race.Yet another thread where the OP decries racism, then turns out to be racist himself . . .
It's not unethical to believe that homosexual activity is disordered or deviant.
As you can see, Dr. Rack, there are people who believe it's unethical to believe that homosexual activity is disordered or deviant. Some of them are probably on the faculty at US medical schools. Heck, I recently had a poster on SDN threaten to attempt to get me expelled for saying we should stop Mexican immigration.As an attending make sure you expose and get these people expelled. There are enough people who wants a career in medicine, so we do not need these people in our profession. As a doctor you should have a higher standard of behaviour than act in this way.
I've been saying for a while that as soon as adcoms think the "freedom of conscience" defense will no longer fly, they will start grilling interviewees point-blank to make sure their social views are sufficiently liberal. plainfacts' post is evidence that there are people who want this to happen.It is sad that the application process can't find better ways to expose these people when there is such a process in place meant to weed them out. Instead of people describing "their worst characteristics" and other useless questions interviewers need to start finding more novel approaches in exposing them. And asking "U liek gayzz, hehe???" which seem to be the way interviewers do these things is just incompetence. If most interviewers would be asked the question "What's your worst characteristic?" they should answer "I am useless at conducting interviews and just wasting everybodys time and money."
While saying "why should I care" goes a bit too far, it is indeed their own damn fault. Would that the medical establishment would acknowledge that. Listening to the AIDS "experts," one would never know that this life-threatening disease can be entirely prevented merely by hewing to certain behavioral standards.People can believe what they want to believe and agree or disagree with any of their patients' behaviors...but saying or implying that a disease or other negative outcome was the patient's fault so why should they care is a belief that shouldn't be tolerated because that mindset can easily affect one's treatment of patients.
I've been saying for a while that as soon as adcoms think the "freedom of conscience" defense will no longer fly, they will start grilling interviewees point-blank to make sure their social views are sufficiently liberal. plainfacts' post is evidence that there are people who want this to happen.
I don't necessarily have a problem with people just saying "it's his fault"...while I don't always agree with the sentiment, I've had similar thoughts regarding drug abusers and alcoholics, so I can understand where it comes from.While saying "why should I care" goes a bit too far, it is indeed their own damn fault. Would that the medical establishment would acknowledge that. Listening to the AIDS "experts," one would never know that this life-threatening disease can be entirely prevented merely by hewing to certain behavioral standards.
I don't necessarily have a problem with people just saying "it's his fault"...while I don't always agree with the sentiment, I've had similar thoughts regarding drug abusers and alcoholics, so I can understand where it comes from.
Random aside: Not to turn this into a political discussion (and I'm not saying this specifically to you since I don't know your views on this), but I think for people/politicians to approve abstinence-only education and yet condemn or blame those who get STDs like AIDS is ridiculous. Education needs to start early to promote good practices.
buttsex, orgies, swingers?(though ~175k have contracted it through "high risk heterosexual activity"... I'm not sure exactly how they define this though).
Dear Michael Rack, MD.
plainfacts, you should probably avoid becoming an attending at a southern medical school, or conservative medical students may gang up on you, give you bad evaluations, and get you fired.
Dear Michael Rack, MD.
What is your problem with unprofessional medical students getting expelled for making racist & sexist comments? I have no interest is going to southern america to work, but if I would and if I'd get fired I can handle it. It would be of no big deal to me.
I see some people here think it is OK for medical students to have whatever values they want. At the same time it is not OK for me have the opinion that these people expelled. Do I sense double standards here?
And bcat85, no I am not american and currently have no aspiration to set foot on US soil. As I am certain you are aware of, humans on other parts of the planet are people too. We have doctors and we have medical schools and we produce extremely competent physicians. In my country it is even possible to make 500 000$/year as a psychiatrist so we are doing just fine financially, if money is what you are after. And great work putting your comments in quotes so I can't quote you.
I didn't say it was average.Dude.. I wanna be where you're at. I mean not exactly, but... oh screw it. You're just making this up. No country has an average psychiatrist making 500k a year. You gave yourself away with the "I see some people here think it is ok for medical students to have whatever values they want" deal. Reveal yourself. Who are you really?
I see some people here think it is OK for medical students to have whatever values they want. At the same time it is not OK for me have the opinion that these people expelled. Do I sense double standards here?
I see some people here think it is OK for medical students to have whatever values they want. At the same time it is not OK for me have the opinion that these people expelled. Do I sense double standards here?
So we should be expelled because you have determined our values to be incongruent with being a physician? So all physicians should be unbiased, completely objective individuals? No one would graduate medical school. We're all biased and we all have opinions, and we're all (in this country) absolutely allowed to those opinions. Some people don't like fat people or white people or people from Oregon, etc. As long as their beliefs don't affect their treatment of patients (medicinally or personally), it's not an issue. Diversity is a two-way street, my friend.
Nobody has suggested you have no right to your opinion, it's just a general consensus that you're an idiot for having it. There's a difference.
So you don't really think I am an idiot, you just disagree with my opinion. There's a difference.
You know what Tired? I don't really care that you think I am an idiot. I simply disagree with you and feel content that I am right.No.
There are people I frequently disagree with, but whom I do not think are idiots. Panda is a great example. Miami Med. Intelligent people with well thought-out opinions on a variety of topics, but whom I happen to disagree with. Great posters, no doubt great docs, but not my cup of tea on a variety of issues.
Then there are others, whose opinions are so assinine that they essentially hang the "idiot" sign on their own necks.
You're up there with "18 MCAT, Still Have a Chance?!?!?!?!" and "OD vs DO, Which is Better?" folks.
Congratulations, it's a pretty elite group.