I spent a lot of time browsing the fora here before I joined- several years, in fact, since I ended up applying a few years out of undergrad, and originally had planned to apply as a traditional applicant in my junior year- and have spent plenty of time since browsing. I am actually fairly certain that I used to post under a different name, which I no longer remember. Maybe I just managed to hit it at a bad time or managed to pick the wrong threads to read. Or maybe what SDN offers wasn't really what I was looking for at the time.
What I will say is that the time I spent here as a premed resulted in me seeing a lot of people suggesting that stats like mine would never get me in to any med school, that being in grad school was at best of negligible significance to my application, and that what I was doing/had done for clinical experience wasn't enough. All without really knowing much about me or what else I had to bring to the table for an application.
All of which was very discouraging and turned out to be false.
I'm glad that people have found the community useful and continue to do so- that's just not the experience I had as a pre-med student.
At risk of being vulgar, I very much got a feel that a lot of the pre-meds were in a giant d**k measuring contest and there were a lot of people out to make others look and feel inadequate, and/or feed the pre-med panic machine.
But hey, maybe I did actually just manage to have bad timing every time I stopped by, because most of what I have seen in the past few weeks when I've decided to post again has been of better quality in terms of accuracy and much friendlier and more collegial than anything I've seen in the past.
I was just sharing my experience; you are welcome to take it or leave it, just as I decided to "leave" most of the advice I got here and apply anyway.