Writing your own letter of recommendation (from shadowing)

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So I've been shadowing 2 D.O's and both were only able to give me 2-3 half day visits (since they were busy). I wasn't planning on asking for a letter of recommendation since I figured I should get one from a physician that I shadowed longer with.

However, at the end of one of my last days, one of the D.O's actually offered a letter of recommendation. The caveat was that I was going to write my own recommendation and he would look at it and make tweaks. I can understand why he would do this, since he is a very busy person.

Nevertheless, I feel kind of weird writing a letter of recommendation for myself. I have read about people who have done it before. What makes it unusual is that I only shadowed with this physician for 2 days. I am not too sure what to write since I feel if I oversell myself, adcoms would see write through it. On the other hand, this would be a great backup in case I can't get a letter from another osteopathic physician.

How do you think I should proceed with this?

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So I've been shadowing 2 D.O's and both were only able to give me 2-3 half day visits (since they were busy). I wasn't planning on asking for a letter of recommendation since I figured I should get one from a physician that I shadowed longer with.

However, at the end of one of my last days, one of the D.O's actually offered a letter of recommendation. The caveat was that I was going to write my own recommendation and he would look at it and make tweaks. I can understand why he would do this, since he is a very busy person.

Nevertheless, I feel kind of weird writing a letter of recommendation for myself. I have read about people who have done it before. What makes it unusual is that I only shadowed with this physician for 2 days. I am not too sure what to write since I feel if I oversell myself, adcoms would see write through it. On the other hand, this would be a great backup in case I can't get a letter from another osteopathic physician.

How do you think I should proceed with this?

Definitely take the opportunity!
 
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Your situation is not uncommon with busy professionals, nor do I see any issue with it. He has told you he is going to review it for content/edit and then sign off on it. This is practically as good if not better than him writing it (only shadowing him twice as you mentioned). It's really only his signature you need!


I'm gonna quote a helpful post previously written on SDN, hope they're of help to you in your LOR situation.

From a Previous Post on SDN:

What to Include
An author's personal style influences the format for his/her letters. However, many writers follow
a composition similar to the following:
Express your pleasure at having the opportunity to recommend the applicant.
Indicate how long and in what capacity you have known the applicant.
Note that you would recommend this student specifically for medical school.
Explore how this applicant compares in intellectual ability to other students you have
encountered this year or in previous years.
Evaluate the student's potential in the field of medicine. How has the student
demonstrated a commitment to medicine? Does he/she strike you as a compassionate
individual who will make a good doctor some day? Does the student seem familiar with
health care?
Discuss the student's coursework, including the nature of the course(s), difficulty of
coursework/major, grades received, notable work assignments, etc. This may be a good
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opportunity to reflect on the student's academic ability, including communication skills
(oral and written), listening and observational abilities, attention to detail, capacity for
hard work, foreign language skills, organizational ability, originality, and resourcefulness.
Discuss a few of the student's strengths that you know well and wish to highlight.
_ Intellectual ability, such as capacity for critical thinking, the ability to understand,
analyze, and synthesize information, problem-solving skills, and teaching or research
potential.
_ Interpersonal skills, including ability to collaborate and get along with peers, response
to criticism, leadership, and attitude toward supervision.
_ Personal qualities, such as maturity, compassion, responsibility, empathy, creativity,
self-awareness, demonstrated judgment, and initiative.
_ Extracurricular activities, including depth of involvement and achievements.
_ Special attributes, assets, or circumstances. All UVa students applying to medical
school have a formal interview with the prehealth advisor, who writes an evaluative
letter. One purpose of this letter is to explain anomalies in a candidate's academic
record or circumstances contributing to a dip in grades. However, should you feel
qualified to do so, you are welcome to discuss such situations in your letter as well.
There might also be special strengths or abilities that warrant mention; while not
obviously relevant to the student's interest in medicine, such talents make the
candidate unique and help medical schools distinguish between applicants.
You may wish to conclude your letter with a reaffirmation of your endorsement of the
student's application and an offer to answer follow-up questions if necessary.
What to Avoid
Don't speculate. Be as specific and factual as possible. Give concrete examples to
illustrate your characterizations of the student. Base your statements on observations and
information obtained through direct contact with the student or their school record.
Avoid discussing an individual's race, color, religion, national origin, age, disability, sexual
orientation, citizenship status, or marital status. Also avoid commenting on a student's
appearance, family background, health, or other personal circumstances unless they are
immediately relative to their application.
Students should not be asked to write their own letters of recommendation. In addition, if
another person assists you in writing the letter, the pronoun "we" should be used
throughout the letter and it should be co-signed. This pertains especially to situations
where teaching assistants are writing letters. We advise students to request letters signed
by both professor and TA, although in certain situations a letter from only a TA is
acceptable to medical schools.
 
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So and so is a total badass and will dominate all diseases encountered in sickly patients. He should be a doctor. Make it so, ADCOM member.

Best LOR, EVER.
 
"Basically, when I first saw him I knew he was true greatness. At first I was hesistant to even have him shadow under me...I mean with his massive intellect, I should be HIS shadow. Soon, after getting over my nerves, I approached him and became a better doctor because of it. Despite his impressive demeanor, hes a very down to earth person. Would not be surprised if he cures all forms of cancer within 3 months of becoming a doctor"
 
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"Basically, when I first saw him I knew he was true greatness. At first I was hesistant to even have him shadow under me...I mean with his massive intellect, I should be HIS shadow. Soon, after getting over my nerves, I approached him and became a better doctor because of it. Despite his impressive demeanor, hes a very down to earth person. Would not be surprised if he cures all forms of cancer within 3 months of becoming a doctor"

Oh stop talking about me like that. But thank you :p
 
I am bumping this thread because I've been asked to write my own LOR and I liked the example template given in a previous post. Makes it easier to find the thread :)
 
I am bumping this thread because I've been asked to write my own LOR and I liked the example template given in a previous post. Makes it easier to find the thread :)

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I had a physician who asked me to do the same thing for a LOR. Never pass up the opportunity for a (good) LOR!
 
So and so is a total badass and will dominate all diseases encountered in sickly patients. He should be a doctor. Make it so, ADCOM member.

Best LOR, EVER.

Probably my favorite SDN post ever. Couldn't stop laughing the first time I read this.
 
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I had a physician who asked me to do the same thing for a LOR. Never pass up the opportunity for a (good) LOR!
Did you follow the posted advice in this thread for the content, or did you find another template? Anything you could share I'd appreciate it!
 
"Basically, when I first saw him I knew he was true greatness. At first I was hesistant to even have him shadow under me...I mean with his massive intellect, I should be HIS shadow. Soon, after getting over my nerves, I approached him and became a better doctor because of it. Despite his impressive demeanor, hes a very down to earth person. Would not be surprised if he cures all forms of cancer within 3 months of becoming a doctor"

This is a win
 
Did you follow the posted advice in this thread for the content, or did you find another template? Anything you could share I'd appreciate it!

No, I just Googled how to write a letter of recommendation and just kind of winged it. I also had copies of other LOR that I had received in the past (for grant applications, research fellowship app, etc), so I read those to see what style to use and what types of things to include. Posted above is a nice template, though! Wish I would have had that to use!
 
Did you follow the posted advice in this thread for the content, or did you find another template? Anything you could share I'd appreciate it!
I've been in the exact same situation and written my own. Used templates I found online. Tried to keep in general and in line with the experience the physician and I had together.
 
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Didn't want to start a new thread for this. But is it pretty typical to get around faculty letters? I've been out of school or a couple of years and getting 3 letters would be difficult and pointless.
 
I couldn't help but notice ur avatar back5

Good to see another rugger 'round these parts
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I couldn't help but notice the avatar either. Made me really excited! Rugger for life!
 
I've been waiting to use this haha uploadfromtaptalk1359475877784.jpg

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Didn't want to start a new thread for this. But is it pretty typical to get around faculty letters? I've been out of school or a couple of years and getting 3 letters would be difficult and pointless.

Your avatar is visually assaultive.
 
Should we address why a student would be good for Osteopathic medicine? Or just medicine in general?
 
Writing one's own LOR seems strange to me, to say the least. I've never heard of this until I came across this post.
 
a lot of the templates just go over what kind of characterisitcs and skills to go over, but general recommendation articles say that you should not just do that and have an anecdote as well. Did you guys do that? and if so, what kind of anecdote? I am writing a letter for myself for a DO physician I shadowed, but I don't really do much when shadowing, but shadow so idk what kind of anecdote to give.
 
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