I had my first interview last weekend, it went pretty well but there were some things I wasn't expecting. I was picked up from the airport from my POI, I wasn't expecting to see her there waiting for me! Especially after my flight was 45 minutes late

. Anyway, I quickly found out that I was staying with a grad student and the other girl who's trying to get the 1 spot in said POI's lab! And this other girl was....weird... She was SO serious and barely cracked a smile all weekend, though she did manage to let everyone know that her research was
exactly what our POI did and this lab would be
perfect for her. Oh and that she only applied to three schools, one of them being the #1 program in the country which she was already accepted to, the other being a highly ranked program that she is interviewing with next week (and that I didn't get an interview for). So the whole weekend I felt like we were having a silent battle, I certainly won the social aspect of it, though she didn't set the bar too high!
Sample conversation:
Me: So, aside from working in the lab, what do you like to do for fun?
Her: Oh, I'm pretty much always in the lab.
Me: Haha, I know what you mean, but come on you have to have to have some free time to have fun?
Her: No, just school and research.
Me: Ummm....ok well
before you started working in the lab, what did you
used to do for fun?
Her: Yeah, school.
Me: I have to go to the bathroom.
In terms of who is a better academic fit, there is no question that it is her, I'm just hoping that POI realized she's not someone she'd want to see every day for the next 6 years! The interviews with faculty went pretty well, I only had a couple tough questions and I think I did pretty well. But I did feel like I had to spend a lot of time defending my interested in POI because my research background is a tad different. People were nice, I couldn't really see myself living there, but I'd consider it if it were the only place I got in. I am trying not to get my hopes up too high about my interview next week, but all signs point to a good match
😳