Psycho Doctor said:
but NO ONE's background is exactly the same. We all start life differently, go through different experiences; some will help in the process and some will hinder. There's no way to put everyone on a level playing field. Whereas I agree there's ways to understand and empathize with someone that has similar characterisitcs and backgrounds, it's not ever going to be excatly the same. We can all continue to make such threads about our individual situation but there isn't enough room on these boards to start threads on everything.
and even caucasians have individual problems associated with their struggle to ge tinto med school: they're the typical med student and it works against them unless thye have something to distinguish themseves, something other groups may not have to work so hard at to attain. So Caucasians staert your own thread, only to have it closed b/c people will start objecting to discussions of AA.
Okay, so get rid of the "Any pre-med artists?" threads, and the "hockey players?" threads and the "braces?" thread. Those are all the same thing -- people with similar experiences connecting with each other because they can relate. Should I feel left out or offended because I'm not an artist or a hockey player, and I don't wear braces?
To pretend that race is not a factor in our interpersonal relationships is just silly. Psycho, I'm not saying you're doing this, but it seems many people would like to. While I'm sure most of us have friends of different races, really truly examine who your closest friends are and I'll bet that most of you will come up with people of your same race. This isn't a bad thing. We like to have things in common with the people around us. That's human nature. And since everybody obviously does have a different experience applying to med school, it makes sense to seek out others who might have similar experiences due to certain factors, like hobbies, lifestyles, or race.
There have been Caucasian threads started. And yes, they do often degenerate. But people have tried to make the African American threads degenerate, too; the people posting in those threads just have more desire to keep them going, apparently. So go ahead and start a Caucasian thread (although you won't see me posting, since I object to the term -- try a White thread, maybe). And if you care enough, stick with it and keep it going.
baylormed said:
If you are not southern, then you are forever forbidden to use "y'all".
It just isn't right.
-Proud Texan, for y'all who didn't know.
hehe, my husband says "y'all" all the time now after having been married to me for over 2 years. And he was born and raised in NY
(Of course I've also adopted all sorts of strange Northern speech patterns -- who knew that I would be saying "sneakers" and such? I still refuse to say "put up the wash" to mean starting the washing machine, though!
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