hey all, just looking for some opinions about the connection to Hawaii essay since that appears to be very important.
I'm from Hawaii, but I was thinking about putting in a paragraph about my gf since she's from Hawaii and her family lives there too. We've been dating for 5 years, and live together now in the mainland. Getting into JABSOM really would be the catalyst for us to move back home and maybe get engaged
I thought it would be pertinent to include, but she feels that since we're not engaged or anything it might not be good to put weight on her connection too (don't want to seem like I'm making a decision based on her when there's no marriage or anything to "legitimate" things). I think that heck, we've had friends get married after dating only 1 year so including her connection to the state on top of my own strengthens it.
Would you include it? Or leave it out and only mention it if it comes up in the event of an interview?