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Hello,
I'm 40 years old. I'm a science teacher. I regret every day, multiple times per day, that I am not in the medical field.
Quick background info:
I have bi-polar, discovered in the middle of university. It was pretty severe and impacted my marks. I would have grades that swung from 95% and above to 60s and 70s. It was a rough time, and just when I started to get it all sorted out, I was struck with damage to one of my kidneys. I had to drop out of school and spend 2 years getting tested, having surgeries, and (thankfully) recovering.
After this messy period of my life I met with an academic advisor and told them about my situation and how I was interested in pursuing medicine (especially with my recent front-line experience dealing with mental and renal issues). He laughed at me. No exaggeration, he just laughed at me and said "no chance."
I believed him. Living in Canada I know it was very hard to get into medical school. I had assumed, based on his opinion, that I just missed my opportunity and/or wasn't smart enough - or if I did have the chops to do the school work, nobody would hire someone with bi-polar disorder. It made sense in my mind.
I ended up going into teaching. I figured, "if I can't do it, maybe I can help others do it." I have tried to live up to this every day I walk into my classroom.
Still, I also regret every day that I'm not doing what I feel so passionately about. I'm also struggling with the notion that I'm 40, I will likely have $250k debt if I got in and finished (at nearly 50!), and my university marks are probably far below what is normally considered acceptable these days.
I come home and I am quite miserable. I am finally at a point where I can feasibly make this work but I wonder if I have a) missed my chance or, b) am going to get laughed out of any interview, c) be rejected because of mental health issues, d) am idealizing the profession (I don't think I am - I truly want to help people - more significantly than I hope I am now), e) just plain out of time.
Any thoughts or suggestions? Just looking for input from those in the know.
I appreciate your time, thanks in advance.
I'm 40 years old. I'm a science teacher. I regret every day, multiple times per day, that I am not in the medical field.
Quick background info:
I have bi-polar, discovered in the middle of university. It was pretty severe and impacted my marks. I would have grades that swung from 95% and above to 60s and 70s. It was a rough time, and just when I started to get it all sorted out, I was struck with damage to one of my kidneys. I had to drop out of school and spend 2 years getting tested, having surgeries, and (thankfully) recovering.
After this messy period of my life I met with an academic advisor and told them about my situation and how I was interested in pursuing medicine (especially with my recent front-line experience dealing with mental and renal issues). He laughed at me. No exaggeration, he just laughed at me and said "no chance."
I believed him. Living in Canada I know it was very hard to get into medical school. I had assumed, based on his opinion, that I just missed my opportunity and/or wasn't smart enough - or if I did have the chops to do the school work, nobody would hire someone with bi-polar disorder. It made sense in my mind.
I ended up going into teaching. I figured, "if I can't do it, maybe I can help others do it." I have tried to live up to this every day I walk into my classroom.
Still, I also regret every day that I'm not doing what I feel so passionately about. I'm also struggling with the notion that I'm 40, I will likely have $250k debt if I got in and finished (at nearly 50!), and my university marks are probably far below what is normally considered acceptable these days.
I come home and I am quite miserable. I am finally at a point where I can feasibly make this work but I wonder if I have a) missed my chance or, b) am going to get laughed out of any interview, c) be rejected because of mental health issues, d) am idealizing the profession (I don't think I am - I truly want to help people - more significantly than I hope I am now), e) just plain out of time.
Any thoughts or suggestions? Just looking for input from those in the know.
I appreciate your time, thanks in advance.