Hi,
I've been under quite a lot of stress my first year in college, at Brown. The first semester I only took three classes because I was having trouble adjusting and blamed myself for not going to school closer to home, as my mom was sick for a long time (though parents were the ones who wanted me to go here instead of UNC), one of which was pass/fail (even though I would've gotten an A), and I made As in the other two classes. This past semester I learned she only had three or so months the day before I left to go back, and passed away during the semester, so I missed a week and a half of school (I was home for two and a half weeks, but things got really bad around Spring Break, so that's where the extra week came from), and the months before I missed school it was pretty much all that was on my mind. I'm probably going to make 2As and a B in three of my classes or all As, but I could very well get a C in orgo because I simply haven't had time to catch up on all the stuff, and have had trouble focusing (at Brown there is no +/-. so it's either a C or a B); there's still time to take a medical drop for the class, which I can. Will med schools really look down on my only taking six classes the first year, only five of which are for a grade, or would they rather see four classes this semester, even with the C in orgo (when I'm positive I could've done better)? It's really something I've been struggling with, and any input would be appreciated
edit: I would've taken a medical leave this semester, but my mom and dad insisted that I stay so I can get adjusted; as I'm the first person in the family to go to college, they insisted that I go to the "best school possible". While I have gotten better adjusted to being here this past semester, that still hasn't really helped with all the obvious personal stress
I've been under quite a lot of stress my first year in college, at Brown. The first semester I only took three classes because I was having trouble adjusting and blamed myself for not going to school closer to home, as my mom was sick for a long time (though parents were the ones who wanted me to go here instead of UNC), one of which was pass/fail (even though I would've gotten an A), and I made As in the other two classes. This past semester I learned she only had three or so months the day before I left to go back, and passed away during the semester, so I missed a week and a half of school (I was home for two and a half weeks, but things got really bad around Spring Break, so that's where the extra week came from), and the months before I missed school it was pretty much all that was on my mind. I'm probably going to make 2As and a B in three of my classes or all As, but I could very well get a C in orgo because I simply haven't had time to catch up on all the stuff, and have had trouble focusing (at Brown there is no +/-. so it's either a C or a B); there's still time to take a medical drop for the class, which I can. Will med schools really look down on my only taking six classes the first year, only five of which are for a grade, or would they rather see four classes this semester, even with the C in orgo (when I'm positive I could've done better)? It's really something I've been struggling with, and any input would be appreciated
edit: I would've taken a medical leave this semester, but my mom and dad insisted that I stay so I can get adjusted; as I'm the first person in the family to go to college, they insisted that I go to the "best school possible". While I have gotten better adjusted to being here this past semester, that still hasn't really helped with all the obvious personal stress