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My stepfather is an MD and he really thinks I should get an MD degree too. For the most part, I've been heeding his advice. In his words, if I get a DO degree I'll always live with a "chip on my shoulder." That I'll always be a little looked down upon.
Even so, I've done my research. I understand that DOs may have a tougher time competing for more competitive specialties but that doesn't mean they are completely unable to get them. And I understand that I'll probably have to jump through more hoops (i.e. taking two different kind of board exams). But, after meeting osteopathic medical students and hearing from some physicians that "they've met great DOs in the field who do just as great a job and sometimes even better in their respective fields" it really doesn't seem like there is all that much difference. A doctor is a doctor, right?
This current cycle I've gotten 5MD interviews (currently on 4 of their wait lists and have yet to hear back from one post interview) and 1DO interview. I scheduled the DO interview for next month (the latest date I possibly could) so that if I don't get accepted MD I sort of have my backup. I really have nothing against DO schools but my stepfather really seems to think I should do MD. My stepfather doesn't even think I should really go to that interview and that I should reapply next year rather than going DO.
I feel a little guilty. I like the DO school that I'm interviewing at (will probably know more about how much I like it after interviewing) but if it comes down to it, and this is the only school I get accepted to, will I go? I'm just not sure. I want to go but I feel like I'm disappointing my stepfather, so maybe I shouldn't.
I think the guilt stems from holding the interview spot and not being completely sure that I will want to go there. There are probably lots of people who would want that spot so maybe I should just give up the spot to someone who wants it more? I like the school, I really just want to be a doctor and don't mind if it's DO but at the same time I don't want to disappoint my stepfather.
Even so, I've done my research. I understand that DOs may have a tougher time competing for more competitive specialties but that doesn't mean they are completely unable to get them. And I understand that I'll probably have to jump through more hoops (i.e. taking two different kind of board exams). But, after meeting osteopathic medical students and hearing from some physicians that "they've met great DOs in the field who do just as great a job and sometimes even better in their respective fields" it really doesn't seem like there is all that much difference. A doctor is a doctor, right?
This current cycle I've gotten 5MD interviews (currently on 4 of their wait lists and have yet to hear back from one post interview) and 1DO interview. I scheduled the DO interview for next month (the latest date I possibly could) so that if I don't get accepted MD I sort of have my backup. I really have nothing against DO schools but my stepfather really seems to think I should do MD. My stepfather doesn't even think I should really go to that interview and that I should reapply next year rather than going DO.
I feel a little guilty. I like the DO school that I'm interviewing at (will probably know more about how much I like it after interviewing) but if it comes down to it, and this is the only school I get accepted to, will I go? I'm just not sure. I want to go but I feel like I'm disappointing my stepfather, so maybe I shouldn't.
I think the guilt stems from holding the interview spot and not being completely sure that I will want to go there. There are probably lots of people who would want that spot so maybe I should just give up the spot to someone who wants it more? I like the school, I really just want to be a doctor and don't mind if it's DO but at the same time I don't want to disappoint my stepfather.