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So here is something I've been struggling with for, oh, a long time. I want to be a doctor. As do all of you, I guess. But what of the children? Not the ones who are here now. The ones those of us with 2 X chromosomes are planning to have in the future.
Here goes some rambling: Will I be able to be a good mother and be a doctor? I don't want my kids to have a full-time nanny. So obviously my career may suffer when I take some time off to raise them. Does that mean medicine would be better off without my fabulous self in it? I don't think so, but I'm not sure how prevalent this attitude is. I mean, in an interview, if I said that I was planning to raise my children and work part time, does that mean I'm an automatic reject? It shouldn't, should it? I think it takes all kinds in the world. I'm not ragging on moms who work full-time, I just don't see it in my future. But I do see medicine. Any thoughts? Anyone else have this inner struggle?
Then there's this comment from my friend the other night "If I could just marry a doctor I'd be the best wife in the world. No job for me, I'd cook, clean the house, and be fine." Now, we were kidding around. But it's definately a sacrifice and I just don't see how it's possible to do it all. (I mean, I also said "I only break up marriages when there are no children involved." And I wasn't 100% serious about that. I mean, I'll break up a marriage if there's one kid and a really hot husband.See, kidding.) Don't get your panties in a wad yet.
Definately interested to hear your thoughts....
Here goes some rambling: Will I be able to be a good mother and be a doctor? I don't want my kids to have a full-time nanny. So obviously my career may suffer when I take some time off to raise them. Does that mean medicine would be better off without my fabulous self in it? I don't think so, but I'm not sure how prevalent this attitude is. I mean, in an interview, if I said that I was planning to raise my children and work part time, does that mean I'm an automatic reject? It shouldn't, should it? I think it takes all kinds in the world. I'm not ragging on moms who work full-time, I just don't see it in my future. But I do see medicine. Any thoughts? Anyone else have this inner struggle?
Then there's this comment from my friend the other night "If I could just marry a doctor I'd be the best wife in the world. No job for me, I'd cook, clean the house, and be fine." Now, we were kidding around. But it's definately a sacrifice and I just don't see how it's possible to do it all. (I mean, I also said "I only break up marriages when there are no children involved." And I wasn't 100% serious about that. I mean, I'll break up a marriage if there's one kid and a really hot husband.See, kidding.) Don't get your panties in a wad yet.
Definately interested to hear your thoughts....