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Another south indian here. how are we doing re. the application process?
I nreply to the Prince: most of those 75% became doctors because the parents raised them to want it (Indian parents are very hands on).
In any case what is choice but doing what you want? If you want what your parents want, that is a choice like any other.
Another south indian here. how are we doing re. the application process?
I nreply to the Prince: most of those 75% became doctors because the parents raised them to want it (Indian parents are very hands on).
In any case what is choice but doing what you want? If you want what your parents want, that is a choice like any other.
Hmmm Paki here....close enough or not quite?
Here's some thoughts from another south Indian I think that you have a valid point about wanting to please your parents, but at the same time when does that end? After seeing my younger cousin get shipped off to India for med school even though she wanted to do it here, it just made me wonder... and as someone who's parents don't care about what I do, I wish people would do what they want so I wouldn't have to continually defend my own choices... not to hate on you, as I think we all feel the turmoil of doing what we want and pleasing our parents
PS- DrVanNostran, I got below a 35 and I got a couple of acceptances in October so I wouldn't worry about comparing yourself to other desis... and yeah I know it was a surprise to me too
Where in South india are you from? What state?
i feel that no matter what your parents push you towards...medicine you cannot be pushed in to!
it requires too much determination, passion, and dedication to be something you're pushed in to
on the other hand..anyone going to utmb galveston??
bollywood movies...ahhhh..you gotta love 'em...where else would you get your dose of life and dance????
and mind you..they are not the same as the ones from the 80s anymore!
I was born outside of India, but parents are from Tamil Nadu.
Ohh ok. Yeah I was asking cuz I have several malu friends.
My dance teacher is tamilian though. Actually I saw you were one on of those who had been waiting on the HMS thread these past few days. One of the girls that got accepted there last year was Tamil too. Very impressive gal. She went to Harvard for undergrad too and have 4.0 and 40 or 41 MCAT, all the other typical stuff plus the clincher. She was a Bharatanatyam dancer and carnatic singer for more then 16 years and was still performing even through college. That impressed me a lot more then her numbers or other things because many people tend to give up after arangetram and just dance only on occasion at Indian parties and what not.
Oh and to everyone here......
I'm not doing it for my parents. I wanted to go into medicine on my own. My parents actually discouraged it. It was more my brothers that they tried to push towards medicine but my brothers didn't want to do it and did other things instead. The eldest bro is an engineer and the other older bro is a bank examiner.
Can i get this girl's name and phone number? Got rejected by harvard. oh well, still a few ivy leagues to hear from. another 10-15 days.....for some reason i feel less tension than during the MCAT times.
if you stop dancing after you're done with your arangetram...that means you probably just stuck through with it in order to get to that point!
arangetram means your debut in to higher learning!....
if anyone is still learning bharatnatyam...i encourage everyone to continue it..it's such a blessing to be a dancer
hahahahahahahaha. You can look on the old thread for her posts. She was named something like Natyala or something like that. I don't remember the exactly what it was just that it was one of the most .....
I hear ya. The problem is, as you said, that a good number take up some form of artistic expression because of their parents. A vast number of those are horrible dancers and HORRIBLE singers. If those people on Sun TV are the 'best', imagine what the rest sung like (that said some on that show are really good). I know I can't sing nor dance, I instead nurture a good ear.
I did a little dancing back when I was in primary school (performed and all that) but stopped because 1. I wasn't that good. 2. Wasn't interested and 3. Had better things to do with my time. My creative pursuits are mostly random and bad pieces of artistic expression. I guess I will always be an engineer.
haha viciouz, very true. I'm not anti-indian but that whole desi scene on campus is scary. And no, I never did bharatnatyam or any indian dancing. It's funny, so many american indians do bharatnatyam (which is fantstic and impressive) but not many people in India really do it. I mean, my family doesn't dance at all. When I was talking about learning how to bhangra or raas or some kind of dance, my parents were like "why? that's not your culture." I think its fun to watch and occasionally do, but I guess thats true for me...being indian for me isn't neccessarily about participating in all the desi activities (aka TENNIS).
Is anyone else here on this board Anti-Indian like me? I am Indian myself but I'ld rather not hang out with other desi people because a. they are full of drama, b. don't share the same values, c. think they are Indian but are more white-washed than me, d. or just plain stupid. I am not saying that I am better than everyone else out there, so don't take it that way. I do have Indian friends... but they are like only a select few. I get along with everyone I meet, but I am just picky with my friends and who I choose to hang out with.
Is anyone else here on this board Anti-Indian like me? I am Indian myself but I'ld rather not hang out with other desi people because a. they are full of drama, b. don't share the same values, c. think they are Indian but are more white-washed than me, d. or just plain stupid. I am not saying that I am better than everyone else out there, so don't take it that way. I do have Indian friends... but they are like only a select few. I get along with everyone I meet, but I am just picky with my friends and who I choose to hang out with.
haha viciouz, very true. I'm not anti-indian but that whole desi scene on campus is scary. And no, I never did bharatnatyam or any indian dancing. It's funny, so many american indians do bharatnatyam (which is fantstic and impressive) but not many people in India really do it. I mean, my family doesn't dance at all. When I was talking about learning how to bhangra or raas or some kind of dance, my parents were like "why? that's not your culture." I think its fun to watch and occasionally do, but I guess thats true for me...being indian for me isn't neccessarily about participating in all the desi activities (aka TENNIS).
Dr. Dancer,
Can I guess that you also have spent several years learning Bharatanatyam or other classical dances??
My cousin's daughter learned Bharatanatyam from a woman who teaches at Rice University. That niece of mine is going to be starting undergrad in the fall. She's currently now spending time training in the Orissan style of classical dance as they really liked the teacher and she wanted to continue on with learning some more classical styles after doing her arangetram. She still performs which I'm proud of her for doing.
However, I will say one thing I've come to learn in life. I don't think desi people are the only people full of drama. For whatever you all say, I used to think they were the only people that were that way. Except I came to realize something in my older years, everyone from every group is like that. People in general are clicquey, irrational, and often times selfish regardless of the group they belong to. Its hard to find people who you can truly trust your life and heart with because so few people will be true to a given person at any given time.
I've heard the same sort of drama stories in pretty much every group of people.
haha viciouz, very true. I'm not anti-indian but that whole desi scene on campus is scary. And no, I never did bharatnatyam or any indian dancing. It's funny, so many american indians do bharatnatyam (which is fantstic and impressive) but not many people in India really do it. I mean, my family doesn't dance at all. When I was talking about learning how to bhangra or raas or some kind of dance, my parents were like "why? that's not your culture." I think its fun to watch and occasionally do, but I guess thats true for me...being indian for me isn't neccessarily about participating in all the desi activities (aka TENNIS).
I totally get what you mean... its the same reason why my best friend, who is Vietnamese, doesn't hang out with his own kind of people. I think we all tend to notice flaws in people of our own ethnicity because we really know how it is. To tell you the truth... more than 80% of the Desi people here are UCI are ******ed...and I've met a lot and I booked it out of those social circles. I am just disappointing that some of them act the way they do. I just stay away from them and just hang out with a select group of friends.
Maybe I am just venting cuz they are probably all partying and I am the stupid science library studying for finals and the MCAT.
you're right..i started learning bharatanatyam when i was 5 and am still continuing..although this year it has been on and off...I've been very fortunate to have found a really good teacher in the Dallas area.. I love her!!
(I grew up in bombay)...i just feel so sad for all those that leave dancing after doing their arangetram..i guess i understand that school/college/other activities get in the way..but if you were so dedicated and passionate as to do your arangetram then you should still continue it..but i totally agree with you on the fact that a lot of arangetrams here are done just because of parents pushing their kids to do it!
All female Asian Indian pre-meds must post or send me a picture (in scrubs preferably). They told me that I was entitled to such as an SDN donor.
Is anyone else here on this board Anti-Indian like me? I am Indian myself but I'ld rather not hang out with other desi people because a. they are full of drama, b. don't share the same values, c. think they are Indian but are more white-washed than me, d. or just plain stupid. I am not saying that I am better than everyone else out there, so don't take it that way. I do have Indian friends... but they are like only a select few. I get along with everyone I meet, but I am just picky with my friends and who I choose to hang out with.
I just hate the ones that get too caught up in "brown pride" or whatever and dismiss anything that doesn't fall in line with mainstream desi culture. For example, people that think certain types of music are "too white".
I don't consider being Indian as an important part of my identity, so I guess that puts me under "type c" of the people you hate .
I just hate the ones that get too caught up in "brown pride" or whatever and dismiss anything that doesn't fall in line with mainstream desi culture. For example, people that think certain types of music are "too white".
I don't consider being Indian as an important part of my identity, so I guess that puts me under "type c" of the people you hate .
Oh and- Baharatnatyam's great, but i'm surprised you don't have more raas pride Ms. gujjudoc .
HAHA anyone heard of DSI? the DeSI frat? Basically, it's that.
I don't consider certain types of music too white but I can't stand rap music cuz I don't like the lyrics and I don't like the fact that there's virtually no melody in any rap music.
I think outside of desi music, my favorite kind of music is actually alternative, ska, etc. I'm more into that kind of stuff then typical rap music. I think I get it from my brothers who are more into American culture then desi culture because they were never able to make friends with any of the desi people.
I also mentioned this in the old thread, but the little bit of arabic, albanian, and greek music I've heard is awesome. I also like the bits of Russian music and latino music I've heard. I'm into most music but rap and heavy metal. Country is boring but I can see why a lot of people like it because it has meaninful lyrics.