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Incoming MS1 headed to school soon, and our school has the regular required orientation events, but a couple of students from my class have organized some casual events for our class to meet up & socialize in a more informal setting.
So...I’m like textbook definition on introverted. I was planning to use the week before school to just mentally prepare. The thought of going to parties/hangouts with people I literally don’t know gives me anxiety, and I honestly think I might just skip out on all of it.
I’m usually a wallflower at parties anyways, because I can only small talk for so long. Being in large group settings is exhausting for me, especially when we’re all just supposed to gather around and talk. I don’t have the energy to pipe up over all the other loud talkers in the group who monopolize the conversation and lead the charge on all the jokes.
Am I totally missing out by foregoing all the random (non-required) social events? I would like to make friends in school eventually, but I hate socializing in a casual party atmosphere. I hate party atmospheres in general. Any other med school introverts who bypassed early social events and still made it out ok? It seems like a lot of people in my class are planning to go to all the events and I don’t want to be labeled as the antisocial loser right off the bat...but I really am just not feeling it.
So...I’m like textbook definition on introverted. I was planning to use the week before school to just mentally prepare. The thought of going to parties/hangouts with people I literally don’t know gives me anxiety, and I honestly think I might just skip out on all of it.
I’m usually a wallflower at parties anyways, because I can only small talk for so long. Being in large group settings is exhausting for me, especially when we’re all just supposed to gather around and talk. I don’t have the energy to pipe up over all the other loud talkers in the group who monopolize the conversation and lead the charge on all the jokes.
Am I totally missing out by foregoing all the random (non-required) social events? I would like to make friends in school eventually, but I hate socializing in a casual party atmosphere. I hate party atmospheres in general. Any other med school introverts who bypassed early social events and still made it out ok? It seems like a lot of people in my class are planning to go to all the events and I don’t want to be labeled as the antisocial loser right off the bat...but I really am just not feeling it.