I'm sure there are stories of people getting into those schools with experiences such as military service, peace corps, 1st author Nature paper, etc. If you have average stats, average ECs, and a PS typical of most applicants, you can probably count those schools out.
Chances are the people are do are not on this site or that MDApps site
let's be honest the people here are of a specific breed, it's basically those with super high stats for the most part who like to brag
I just want to say there's more to the applicant outside of the numbers...also these top schools are looking for certain type of applicants
and by certain type they aren't necessarily looking for the cookie cutter ones
Bio Major
3.9/4.0
36 MCAT (unbalanced, lowest in verbal)
Volunteer experience (1000 hours)
Shadowing (1000 hours)
Honestly, those people tend to make me even cringe. Sure he'll get into a school, but probably not the one of his choice. Again, I'm being really stereotypical, but you know what I'm talking about
Sure we'll all become doctors, but we aren't all supposed to necessarily take the same path to get there
The thing it comes down to is "why not you?"
For undergrad admissions, there were kids, even at my school who had higher scores than me
I still got accepted to 6/10 of the schools [apparently reach schools] I applied to. Including Columbia, Duke, Emory, Carnegie Mellon, Yale, Georgetown
Do your own thing and be proud of it...if they don't like you then screw them. They don't deserve you
You got to start believing you are enough, who cares what the person next to you is...maximize yourself and realize anything is possible.
Again, I haven't gone through medical school admission...but honestly. I'm going to trust the process like I always do. Don't be so worried about the results, trust the process it will treat you kindly if you do. Don't force things and be awesome and love what you do, and of course take risks
Edit:
Also this is a great article
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/yingying-shang/an-open-letter-to-suzy-lee-weiss_b_3041458.html
Funny enough she basically says the same thing I say
"In the long run, colleges are looking for people who have real passion, real interests, and real humility. In other words, what we all look for in people."
"Find something you love and do well, and do it. Also: be yourself. Be the best version of yourself you can be. You can still watch Real Housewives besides."