I'm going to take this thead as an opportunity to try to de-stress SDNers. Futile? Perhaps, but I have to try. To everyone who's thinking "I'm stressed out. My life sucks." I say RELAX. If your biggest problem is doing poorly on the MCATs, you have a blessed life. The best way to stay calm is to put things in perspective! If you are getting/have had clinical experience (which is probably all of you) you should be able to do this. I work in an ED; I may have been rejected by a couple schools, but I wasn't hit by a car on my way to work this morning. My dad didn't have a heart attack and die last night. I have ten fingers and ten toes and can breathe and walk on my own. Bad stuff happens to people all the time (read the "medicine sucks" thread in the EM forum if you don't believe me). And truly, life can suck sometimes. Parents get sick. Friends die suddenly. Save your emotions for things that really matter (and orgo is not one of them).
I really want to go to med school next year. Really. If I don't get in I will be unhappy, but it won't be the end of the world. I'll do something interesting next year, get new experiences, and reapply. This process tries your patience like no other, but think of how lucky you are to even have the opportunity to apply to medical school.
Another general rule of thumb for not stressing: if you can't control it, don't worry about. If you've already taken a big test and are worried about the grade, forget it. The test has been taken. Losing sleep isn't going to raise your score. If you're late to an appointment and sitting in traffic, put on some good music, because swearing at other drivers won't get you there faster. If you have an exam in less than 24 hours, stress-induced pre-test cramming probably won't help you that much. If you're stressed about the april mcats now, then try to turn it into a positive stressor and make a study plan. Stressing about the april mcats on april 15th is only going to hurt you.
General de-stressing tips: Stop reading SDN! (easier said than done?I'm sure you're all as addicted as I am). Spend time with friends who have different interests. Exercise, as already mentioned above (I definitely recommend martial arts), and eat well. Watch a mel brooks movie. Have a beer and read People magazine. Not every minute of your day needs to be spent in productivity. Thirty minutes of relaxing can go a long way towards productivity anyway. If you're jittery and stressed you won't be able to concentrate as well. Not to mention you can have high blood pressure, chronic pain, and many other stress-related health problems.
And to every undergrad and high school student on this site: College is NOT a means to getting into medical school, so don't think of it as one. College should be an amazing four years of your life, and if you spend it worrying about the next step (med school admission) it won't be. Take the opportunity to enjoy yourself. Do what makes you happy!! Find something you enjoy (any EC, medically-related or not) and dive in. Adcoms will see you as passionate and committed, even if you are president of the ping-pong club and haven't saved underweight aids orphans in africa. Take classes you want to take and do the activities you truly want to do. Do something related to medicine (research, shadowing) so you're sure what you're getting into, but don't do it because you're pre-med and feel obligated to.
Sorry for the long post, guys. Thanks for reading, and I hope this helps!
-E
P.S. since it's tomorrow...I hope you all have a wonderful thanksgiving. Please try to be thankful for what you have! And to everyone who is truly stressed out and having problems (serious illness, hard times financially, etc) I hope everything works out for you. This, too, shall pass. If you are spending tomorrow with your family and friends, don't let them drive you crazy: be grateful for them. And good luck to everyone applying! May the mailman be good to you this holiday season.