I have the same story. I was diagnosed in my senior year of college, and I am now a returning student. I'm so frustrated with people throwing out the special treatment card. Biology professors are the worst with this. I want to say this for everyone. Learning disabilities do not mean that you "should" be struggling with school. Some of use are lucky. Yes, I have ADHD, and I am likely dyslexic. I take meds, and I take extra time on tests. I also have bad eye sight, and I wear glasses or contacts. Taking meds or extra time is no more of an advantage than wearing glasses. Some people will tell you it is because they claim that you can't "prove" that you have ADHD. However, nobody else can see through my eyes....maybe I am just lying because I think it's cool, and I like the special attention that I get for wearing glasses. I went through 12 hours of testing. Just yesterday, someone said to me that she reads the symptoms for ADHD, and she knows that everybody has it. Come on people...have you ever felt tired? Do you regularly feel tired? Does that mean that you have lymes disease? I mean, it's a symptom, right?
I am sorry to rant, but I am so frustrated with this right now, and I was shocked to see the topic come up on here.
When I was diagnosed, one of the main indicators came through in my IQ tests. My IQ was above average in everything, except processing speed. That was significantly lower than all of the others. IMO- You have a legal right that states that you are allowed to level the playing field. This is done because while the processing speed may be lower, your writing skills and creative thinking and problem solving, etc, may be advanced.
As for other people feeling resentment. 1- How many times have we all hears, if you know the info, you know it, so time shouldn't matter. (This is usually used as an arguement for shortened time...which is odd to me.) and 2- say what I say, "many doctors are willing to diagnose ADHD with minimal to no testing. Go to one, describe the symptoms, get diagnosed, and enjoy these "privileges" with me. It's really not that hard, and if it helps you to display the information that you know better, then go for it. I'd like to see everyone earn As."
This is long, and unthought out. It is a snap reaction, but it's my opion. take it or leave it, but at least think it over.
Best of luck!!!