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I really hate asking for money. It makes me feel like a worthless piece of crap who can't hack it on her own. As you can tell, I have issues with it because I am very independent. Anyway, I need some help asking a specific person for money. You see, I haven't really been on speaking terms with my stepmom since my dad died 6 years ago, but at my college graduation (I was floored that she came) she told me that she would help out with medical school. She put some money toward my undergrad education, so I know she is telling the truth. However, she made me provide proof that I was in school and demanded that I send her my grades every semester and sent disapproving letters if I didn't have straight A's (which was almost always the case). It was a pain in the butt.
So my problem is this: I didn't get into Arizona this round (only one more to go!) and I am holding an acceptance to a DO school that requires a $750 deposit by March 1. The deposit is 40% refundable if I withdraw my place from the class. I am in a bad financial situation and I waited until the last minute to pay this because I was waiting to hear from Arizona. I can't ask my stepdad for the money because he just sprang $2000 for the dog's knee surgery and doesn't have an extra $750 laying around. My stepmom has the money. I haven't spoken to her since September. I need the money. I have to ask her. How do I do it? My stomach is churning just thinking about it.
Thanks.
So my problem is this: I didn't get into Arizona this round (only one more to go!) and I am holding an acceptance to a DO school that requires a $750 deposit by March 1. The deposit is 40% refundable if I withdraw my place from the class. I am in a bad financial situation and I waited until the last minute to pay this because I was waiting to hear from Arizona. I can't ask my stepdad for the money because he just sprang $2000 for the dog's knee surgery and doesn't have an extra $750 laying around. My stepmom has the money. I haven't spoken to her since September. I need the money. I have to ask her. How do I do it? My stomach is churning just thinking about it.
Thanks.