Hi everyone,
Since I'm in the middle of this longdistance thing, I'm going to post some of my thoughts. My bf is a year ahead of me, he's in arizona attending medical school. As for me, I have just gotten accepted to UW, Upenn, and UConn for entry this fall. I have to say, long distance is very hard, esp. if you guys started off really close, seeing each other everyday. I remember when he left, I just cried and cried. Not because he wasn't next to me, but because I knew this would be a long journey. It was a good thing my DATs was coming up in a month, so I just studied my butt off. I studied to get him off my mind, but it still sucks. Anyway, from last summer till now, we talk everyday. i read that someone earlier posted that this is the norm, and later, the phone calls would just get less frequent. I'm sure when I enter dental school, our conversations would be much shorter. However, I still believe we would do anything to keep up.
Right now, Im in a really difficult position because he's in arizona and the only school close to him in UWashington. (I haven't even heard back from Arizona about an interview or not). I dont want anyone especially me to sway my decision. We both agreed that he would try to do his residency wherever I'm at. This is still 3 years from now, but that;s the plan so far.
Anyway, for the girls and guys out there who are either leaving for dental school,or away from their bfs/gfs bc they're going somewhere else, long distance is definitely very difficult, but it isn't impossible.
And just as an encouragment, my bf flew up here this weekend to spend early Valentines' day with me =)
Definitely talk with your significant other about this long distance thing. It takes two to tango, good luck to everyone with schools and love!