I agree. Home ownership is such a headache and a hassle. I regret it almost everyday.
There's a similar discussion going on now in the finance forum. Anyone who is seeking to buy a house really needs to consider many issues. It's funny, I've been around here for > 8 years and how people view this questions has changed greatly because the way we look a real estate has changed greatly.
So what are the pros of home ownership:
1) You build equity. Well if youre only going to be in the house for 4 years, you really arent. If you buy a 200K house, putting 40K down and get a 6% 30 year fixed mortgage, you will pay just over $8,600 in principal four years thats $180 per month. At the same time, youll pay just over 37K in interest! Those numbers are for a great mortgage. If youre putting less than 20% down or have other issues (poor credit), your interest rate will likely be much higher.
2) You get a great write-off on your income taxes. Well, many will have an income so low that this will have a minimal impact and even those that do make good money, the value of deducting the interest and taxes is only good as far as it exceeds the standard deduction. So if you have a modest income or a modest house, youll likely see very little benefit here.
3) Independence. This one I wont argue with you. Its awesome to be able to pain your walls whatever color you want and not to have loud neighbors in the next apartment. The question is what is this worth.
Cons of home ownership:
1) You are locked in. Whenever you are looking to sell at a certain time, you will be the victim of the market. This can go well or very poorly, but the potential downside is huge. If you must move on a certain date or face housing payments in two locales, you will have to price your house to move unless you are in a hot market. Of course, you can always rent the house out, but that raises a whole host of new problems.
2) You are responsible for your repairs. New roof? 10K, New furnace 5K. I just put a new roof on my house, I must have had the worse building inspector in the state of Kansas.
3) Real estate fees and closing costs. When you go to sell that 200K house, you will instantly lose $12,000 in real estate fees. You likely lose another $3-5 on the front-end, back-end or both.
There certainly are other pros and cons. Id look at it this way, if you can rent a good house or apartment that is close to meeting your needs for close to what your mortgage payment would be go with the rental.
Ed