Hi,
So I've been thinking... if I'm going to sink more than $30k into rent over 4 years of med school, I may be better off buying a small house, and having some equity when I graduate. I was just wondering how many people do this, and if anyone has- was it in your opinion a good or bad idea? I know lots of stuff comes with owning rather than renting- stuff like a busted pipe the night before a test or having to make time to mow the lawn, etc- but are these things worth it to have something to show in the end for all of the money you've been paying for living expenses. It also would be easier to have a dog if you own rather than rent-I'm considering this since moving away from family, friends, boyfriend, etc may leave me lonely at night in a house by myself, and I would love the companionship and motivation to exercise.
Overall, if I do this, I'm thinking that trying to get the house and dog early in summer before M1 is best, so that the house will be fixed up and ready and the dog trained before school gets into full swing. If not before M1, maybe summer before M2?
Thoughts?
Buying houses right now is really risk in almost any market in the country. The market is falling and you may find that the house is worth less than you paid for it when you sell it. You'll wish you rented if you lose 50k on the value of the house + all the costs for upkeep. Generally, your logic would work but right now its not a good idea - especially if you're alone and won't have help for the upkeep/repairs of the house.
Another thing to consider regarding buying a house is the commute. Most houses near universities are pricey. So you'd have to live 10+ miles from campus. Thats 100 miles/week - a tank of gas a month - which is going up every day. You may find that rent is cheaper than mortgage+gas, especially if you can get an apartment very close to campus.
Also, consider the down payment. Usually 30% of the house cost or so. I don't know anything about you, but if you're the average 1st year - most 22 year olds don't have 30,000 lying around to pay for a down payment.
As far as dogs - search pets and there are lots of people's views on that. Don't get a puppy if you're living alone - puppies take almost a full year to truly train and no way will you have enough time during your first year to do it. If you had a spouse/live-in SO it would be a different story. But alone, you simply won't have enough time. You will get frustrated about having a badly behaved dog, the dogs behavior will worsen because as first year goes on you'll have less and less time and in the end you may end up giving him up because neither of you are happy. Not a happy prospect.
If you get an older dog (like 4-5+) it may be doable because they won't need as much playtime. But even then, you have to remember that dogs are really really needy animals and its not fair for you to leave a dog completely alone for 20+ hours during your rotations/residency. Having an SO or roommate helps for that. But alone, its unfair to the animal.
If you really want a pet, a better idea would be a cat. They're pretty independent, can deal with being alone more often (but certainly not all the time). I got a kitten when I got to med school and even he takes up more of my time then I should probably allow. I always study at home so he's not alone all the time, and I make an effort to play with him multiple times every day. Its still a lot of work but its worthwhile to have something that I can come home to and love every night. But keep in mind, even I have a roommate who helps. She watches him if I'm out of town for a weekend or something.
But yeah, before you get an animal things to consider:
-cost of keeping an animal (can you fit it in your budget - my cat costs about 65/month in food, litter and pet rent - a dog would be more. Plus you have to worry about emergency vet bills)
-what you will do when you're out of town. Will you have someone where you are to take care of it? I assume you'll go home to your family and bf on breaks - will you be able to fly/drive your pet with you? Pay for a pet sitter?
-can you study at home? Many people need to study in a library or out of their own home. Its not fair to keep an animal if you'll be studying in the library 16hrs/day.
-cost of getting an animal. This could include the adoption fees/initial vet bills/shots/spay or neuter/pet deposit for your rental. My cat cost over 500 dollars once all was said and done - again, a dog would be more.
-how good is your time management? You can't ignore your animal just because you are in finals and don't have time for it. You still have to feed it, play with it, give it attention, possibly walk it. As great as animals are, they can at times add to your stress if you don't plan ahead.
Good luck in your decisions about the house and pet, just be sure to really think both through. Those are both HUGE decisions that should never be taken lightly.