@LizzyM - thank you for your reply! You and
@Goro are awesome, and speedy.
I'm rather fond of the Yale System (my number one is Lerner through Case Western, which uses an even more extreme version of the Yale System, if I understand it correctly). I perform best when given a learning goal (or allowed to create one), a little organizational support, and free reign to accomplish that goal. I'm also perfectly okay with a thesis - longitudinal studies and long papers have become my good friends. I like the opportunity to study something in-depth and then organize it into papers and presentations, and it feels more "real" to me than the never-ending lecture-test-lecture format. It's at least a good change of pace, when placed within a standard lecture system.
I'll have to look more into the schools Goro added (thank you so much, by the way!), but the schools on my original list seemed to have good support for families - good housing, support groups for spouses, etc. Weather is my only concern at some - it's tough to go outside and play with the kids in a blizzard. If you know of any other issues, please let me know. Our daughter just turned one, so she'll be starting kindergarten during med school. I'm ok with public ed - I grew up in Arizona! Hahaha... I thought the laid-back educational system gave us more time for self-learning, and it worked out well for me.
I used public transportation in Seattle and India and didn't mind it at all, but the story might be a little different with kids. My wife and I have been trying to figure that one out too - tons of parents in NYC, for example, get by fine with the subways, but is it too much of a hassle to be worth it if there are other options for locale?
@Lawper The two DO schools in AZ (my home state) seem pretty awesome, especially MW. I don't have any stigmas against DOs. Any particular reason to get rid of them?