This is my first time on this website, and I found it at a very good time because the past week has been one of the most hopeless. I'm a third year chemistry and psychology double major and I just finished my first midterms. My first two years were iffy and my GPA right now is 2.6 which upsets me a lot because I know I'm better than that.. I have a lot of excuses for this, and so much has happened to me outside of school those two years, but what upsets me is that this is my first semester where I'm not either in the middle of serious depression while working part time or just working full time without much personal issues, yet I'm still not doing good, I should have no excuse this time around. People tell me I'm too hard on myself and I have been in difficult situations, yet I stayed determined. I'm just sick of it, I'm sick of staying strong and grinding my way to that C+ or B-. Over the summer I finally decided what I wanted to do with my life, and I was in between Physical Therapy and Sports Medicine Physician, and later down the years I wanted to open up my own Taekwondo school and teach various things as well as have my own gym as a part of the school.
Back to my midterms; I did average on Inorganic and Biology, but I did below average on my Research methods class (what is supposed to be the easiest class this semester) and getting a 55/200 on my Physical Chemistry exam. I know I could probably bust it to get that C/B but I've never been this upset with myself since my girlfriend broke up with me a year and a half ago. I couldn't sleep for a couple days and yesterday I cried all night. I've had suicidal thoughts and suffered from intense depression before, but I was never this frail. I feel so empty and hopeless with myself. I actually feel dumb, and I know I'm not, I just didn't work hard enough, yet I feel intellectually behind everyone around me, I feel like everyone looks down on me, I'm ashamed of myself. I can't stop questioning my purpose in life. I feel so lonely lately, like I don't matter and everyone I know is starting to drift and forget about me. I suddenly don't have the motivation to live and fight for myself. Sometimes I feel like old friends are against me (or maybe I'm being paranoid again) and I'm a walking disappointment to everyone who looks up to me. I guess I just don't feel like I'm doing the right thing or I'm not doing what makes me happy, but I'm stubborn and want to prove to myself I can do this. I have nowhere else to go if I quit school, so I feel stuck with all this work and I want to give up.. I have a passionate reason to wanting to go to Med school or Physical Therapy school, yet it seems I'm not as passionate as others.. I don't care about the money, I want to help athletes like me who suffer serious injuries and are held back to continue growing and becoming stronger. This has become my only reason to live lately, of course I have many personal goals I want to achieve but in this world, without a decent job, doing what I love, my life seems like it's for someone else that doesn't care about me. I don't want to work at Target for the rest of my life, or work 80 hours a week doing retail or whatever, I get enough of it now.
I guess what I need to know, is if I can still do this? Can I somehow get into medical school and what should I do? What about Physical Therapy? Is that not an option at this point either? I haven't spent any time shadowing, or doing internships, as I have to work and run the Taekwondo Club at my university and I wanted to focus on my grades for now, but clearly I don't seem capable of even that. I can push myself to cheer up and get back to normal, and I'm sure I'll do okay on the next exams like always but I'm here right now because I've been contemplating the past few nights whether or not I'm a waste and everything I'm doing is meaningless and a waste of time because of my past. Is there a way to get a second chance at any of this, or is there nothing I can do with what I am right now? I've lived most of my life without a purpose and as I grow up I can't seem to live with myself unless I have an actual purpose, which is helping people. I know I have the potential to do great things, but not being constantly above average like I was in High School, I don't feel good enough, and my dreams are falling apart as a result. Thank you to anyone who reads all of this, I know it's a lot, and maybe I'm in the wrong place for help, but I would appreciate thoughts on how others would go about this situation.
Back to my midterms; I did average on Inorganic and Biology, but I did below average on my Research methods class (what is supposed to be the easiest class this semester) and getting a 55/200 on my Physical Chemistry exam. I know I could probably bust it to get that C/B but I've never been this upset with myself since my girlfriend broke up with me a year and a half ago. I couldn't sleep for a couple days and yesterday I cried all night. I've had suicidal thoughts and suffered from intense depression before, but I was never this frail. I feel so empty and hopeless with myself. I actually feel dumb, and I know I'm not, I just didn't work hard enough, yet I feel intellectually behind everyone around me, I feel like everyone looks down on me, I'm ashamed of myself. I can't stop questioning my purpose in life. I feel so lonely lately, like I don't matter and everyone I know is starting to drift and forget about me. I suddenly don't have the motivation to live and fight for myself. Sometimes I feel like old friends are against me (or maybe I'm being paranoid again) and I'm a walking disappointment to everyone who looks up to me. I guess I just don't feel like I'm doing the right thing or I'm not doing what makes me happy, but I'm stubborn and want to prove to myself I can do this. I have nowhere else to go if I quit school, so I feel stuck with all this work and I want to give up.. I have a passionate reason to wanting to go to Med school or Physical Therapy school, yet it seems I'm not as passionate as others.. I don't care about the money, I want to help athletes like me who suffer serious injuries and are held back to continue growing and becoming stronger. This has become my only reason to live lately, of course I have many personal goals I want to achieve but in this world, without a decent job, doing what I love, my life seems like it's for someone else that doesn't care about me. I don't want to work at Target for the rest of my life, or work 80 hours a week doing retail or whatever, I get enough of it now.
I guess what I need to know, is if I can still do this? Can I somehow get into medical school and what should I do? What about Physical Therapy? Is that not an option at this point either? I haven't spent any time shadowing, or doing internships, as I have to work and run the Taekwondo Club at my university and I wanted to focus on my grades for now, but clearly I don't seem capable of even that. I can push myself to cheer up and get back to normal, and I'm sure I'll do okay on the next exams like always but I'm here right now because I've been contemplating the past few nights whether or not I'm a waste and everything I'm doing is meaningless and a waste of time because of my past. Is there a way to get a second chance at any of this, or is there nothing I can do with what I am right now? I've lived most of my life without a purpose and as I grow up I can't seem to live with myself unless I have an actual purpose, which is helping people. I know I have the potential to do great things, but not being constantly above average like I was in High School, I don't feel good enough, and my dreams are falling apart as a result. Thank you to anyone who reads all of this, I know it's a lot, and maybe I'm in the wrong place for help, but I would appreciate thoughts on how others would go about this situation.