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Hello all. This is my first post here, so please be kind. Thank you.
I am wondering, in a nutshell, why did those of you who came to medicine late in life choose to do so?
Please note that I am not interested per se in "traditional" applicants, hence why I have posted here... too many of my friends had some strange radar that from birth dictated that they would become doctors. While that is very handy for those lucky few, it is not helpful for my purposes per se.
My story isn't a terribly interesting one per se. I began as a premed student at 18 largely because my dad was a doctor and because my college offered a rigorous program. As you might have guessed, this is a truly terrible reason to do so, and I quickly changed majors to history by the end of the year. I completed a semester of chemistry, two of biology, and excused myself without damaging my GPA too much (Bs, B+s).
As my fiancee decided to enter a psychology PhD program, I graduated and began to work in a fairly boring office-type job by her school. This was (and is--I am still employed there) a fairly eye-opening experience. I quickly came to the realization that I have absolutely no interest in doing any kind of work that involves staring at a screen for 8+ hours a day; this ruled out some of the careers I had been considering. I think I am beginning to figure out what I want in a job:
1) A challenge, 2) Human interaction beyond sporadic cubicle-talk, 3) The sense of doing something genuinely worthwhile, and 4) Some autonomy.
Now, this does not directly lead back to medicine per se, but lately I have been thinking more about it. A medical career fulfills 1-4 to varying degrees, more than other careers that I have been thinking about. In my idealized world, I envision a job where I am genuinely effecting positive change in the world. The hours suck, fair enough, but the work itself is rewarding. I would not be chronically underemployed, or a corporate lawyer, or a cubicle monkey plugging away at a keyboard. There would be value in my work: relief of pain, improvement of lives, removal of disease.
However, I am wondering if I have the skill set/ability required to be a physician. I have a background in the humanities of all disciplines. I nearly became a history professor from the hippie land of Colorado-Boulder, for gosh sakes. I am not some ex-biochemistry major from MIT.
So, if you were me, how would you recommend I go about learning what being a physician is really like, and whether I am cut out for it? I salvaged Bs and B+s from human anatomy and general chemistry, but I was competing on a curved scale with students who had taken the courses before in high school and who were genuinely Divinely Inspired To Be Doctors. Over time I learned study habits that eventually brought my GPA to the upper 3.7s, but at the same time I am genuinely terrified of stepping into a biology class after years of learning about the Chinese Communists and US foreign policy.
I am worried that I should have "known" already if I was meant to be a doctor, or that my background in the humanities means that I am not as realistic/serious an option as, say, a biology major. I am worried that the fact that I found calc-based physics to be extremely difficult in high school means that I am too dumb to be a medical student, even though I am not sure how relevant the physics is. I am worried that even if I study my butt off to do well in difficult prereq classes, that I will be found out to be a fraud in medical school as I wither under the pace.
I am beginning to consider medical school, but I fear that I am dragging my fiancee and myself down a tortuous path that I will be ultimately unable to complete, and I will fruitlessly apply to schools only to find that I cannot cut it, and I have lost 2-3 years of work experience in the meantime, to end up tens of thousands of dollars poorer (in real terms and in terms of potential income over those years).
So, for those of you non-traditional types, how on earth do you gather the courage to make that plunge? What about those of you who excelled in the humanities? Did you ever have the fear that because you loved English/history/whatever, that you would wake up one day and realize that you were a sellout and you hated science? How exactly do you do this?
As you might have concluded, I personally am nowhere near ready to take the plunge, but I am beginning to seriously wonder about doing so. And I am worried that if I do not look more closely at medicine that I may regret it for the rest of my life, as I get older and it becomes harder and harder to return to school. So this is my shot to see whether I can do this and whether I want to do this. Please let me know what you think I should do. I really am lost.
Thank you,
I am wondering, in a nutshell, why did those of you who came to medicine late in life choose to do so?
Please note that I am not interested per se in "traditional" applicants, hence why I have posted here... too many of my friends had some strange radar that from birth dictated that they would become doctors. While that is very handy for those lucky few, it is not helpful for my purposes per se.
My story isn't a terribly interesting one per se. I began as a premed student at 18 largely because my dad was a doctor and because my college offered a rigorous program. As you might have guessed, this is a truly terrible reason to do so, and I quickly changed majors to history by the end of the year. I completed a semester of chemistry, two of biology, and excused myself without damaging my GPA too much (Bs, B+s).
As my fiancee decided to enter a psychology PhD program, I graduated and began to work in a fairly boring office-type job by her school. This was (and is--I am still employed there) a fairly eye-opening experience. I quickly came to the realization that I have absolutely no interest in doing any kind of work that involves staring at a screen for 8+ hours a day; this ruled out some of the careers I had been considering. I think I am beginning to figure out what I want in a job:
1) A challenge, 2) Human interaction beyond sporadic cubicle-talk, 3) The sense of doing something genuinely worthwhile, and 4) Some autonomy.
Now, this does not directly lead back to medicine per se, but lately I have been thinking more about it. A medical career fulfills 1-4 to varying degrees, more than other careers that I have been thinking about. In my idealized world, I envision a job where I am genuinely effecting positive change in the world. The hours suck, fair enough, but the work itself is rewarding. I would not be chronically underemployed, or a corporate lawyer, or a cubicle monkey plugging away at a keyboard. There would be value in my work: relief of pain, improvement of lives, removal of disease.
However, I am wondering if I have the skill set/ability required to be a physician. I have a background in the humanities of all disciplines. I nearly became a history professor from the hippie land of Colorado-Boulder, for gosh sakes. I am not some ex-biochemistry major from MIT.
So, if you were me, how would you recommend I go about learning what being a physician is really like, and whether I am cut out for it? I salvaged Bs and B+s from human anatomy and general chemistry, but I was competing on a curved scale with students who had taken the courses before in high school and who were genuinely Divinely Inspired To Be Doctors. Over time I learned study habits that eventually brought my GPA to the upper 3.7s, but at the same time I am genuinely terrified of stepping into a biology class after years of learning about the Chinese Communists and US foreign policy.
I am worried that I should have "known" already if I was meant to be a doctor, or that my background in the humanities means that I am not as realistic/serious an option as, say, a biology major. I am worried that the fact that I found calc-based physics to be extremely difficult in high school means that I am too dumb to be a medical student, even though I am not sure how relevant the physics is. I am worried that even if I study my butt off to do well in difficult prereq classes, that I will be found out to be a fraud in medical school as I wither under the pace.
I am beginning to consider medical school, but I fear that I am dragging my fiancee and myself down a tortuous path that I will be ultimately unable to complete, and I will fruitlessly apply to schools only to find that I cannot cut it, and I have lost 2-3 years of work experience in the meantime, to end up tens of thousands of dollars poorer (in real terms and in terms of potential income over those years).
So, for those of you non-traditional types, how on earth do you gather the courage to make that plunge? What about those of you who excelled in the humanities? Did you ever have the fear that because you loved English/history/whatever, that you would wake up one day and realize that you were a sellout and you hated science? How exactly do you do this?
As you might have concluded, I personally am nowhere near ready to take the plunge, but I am beginning to seriously wonder about doing so. And I am worried that if I do not look more closely at medicine that I may regret it for the rest of my life, as I get older and it becomes harder and harder to return to school. So this is my shot to see whether I can do this and whether I want to do this. Please let me know what you think I should do. I really am lost.
Thank you,