I was wondering if I could get some advice/ opinions from you guys/girls. So my GF and I are both 4th year medical students. She is applying ENT and I am applying IM and planning to go into Cardio fellowship after. We really want to stay together after the match. So far so good. However, now that we have all our interviews scheduled there is a problem. She has 6 total ENT interviews. Two interviews are at places in states that I didn't even think to apply to, two more are isolated but I knew she did away rotations there so I interviewed at both, however, when I made my rank list both of these place fell at dead last, the one I know for a fact I'd be miserable there.
So I'm stuck. We both worked really hard for this so I don't expect her to just not rank the places that I can't match. Conversely, knowing that in three years I have to match a competitive fellowship, I don't think it's fair that I follow her to what are my lowest two programs and to programs I think would be detrimental to matching in cardio later on in an area I want to train.
We've been together 3+ years at this point. I am definitely going into cardio, I highly highly doubt I will feel differently in residency, so assume I am doing cardio after.
Here are the places I interviewed at Grouped by places I liked the most/ thought would set me up for the future well:
Favorites:
Brown
BID
Temple
Univ of Maryland
Dartmouth
Jefferson
Next tier:
Penn State
VCU
Robert wood johnson
Next tier down:
MUSC
Virginia tech
Cooper hosp
Penn Hosp
The other places she had an interview (and at my bottom)
Geissinger
Louisville
So I'm stuck. We both worked really hard for this so I don't expect her to just not rank the places that I can't match. Conversely, knowing that in three years I have to match a competitive fellowship, I don't think it's fair that I follow her to what are my lowest two programs and to programs I think would be detrimental to matching in cardio later on in an area I want to train.
We've been together 3+ years at this point. I am definitely going into cardio, I highly highly doubt I will feel differently in residency, so assume I am doing cardio after.
Here are the places I interviewed at Grouped by places I liked the most/ thought would set me up for the future well:
Favorites:
Brown
BID
Temple
Univ of Maryland
Dartmouth
Jefferson
Next tier:
Penn State
VCU
Robert wood johnson
Next tier down:
MUSC
Virginia tech
Cooper hosp
Penn Hosp
The other places she had an interview (and at my bottom)
Geissinger
Louisville