my fiance(getting married in july) is going to begin work on her phd this fall as i begin med school. we plan on living together but the two schools we'll be attending are about 1.5 hrs apart. does anyone else have any experience or advice they'd like to share? we are both serious about our professional goals and thus neither of us is likely to budge anytime soon. i guess i just want some input or someone to pat me on the back and say "it's gonna be ok, bro"