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Questions to men on this forum: do you actually value your relationships (anything from casual dating to more long term arrangements) with women? I ask because I have come to the realization that none of my dating in earnest hasn't amounted to much. I have been dating quite a bit in New York City (maybe 20 or so women) and I have only managed to get past a two dates with 3 women. Prior to coming here for medical school, I couldn't convince any women to date me at all. None of the women I have dated have brought anything useful or amazing into my life; they have just acted like parasites for meals, tickets to events, etc.. Sex is the only thing that any of the women I have dated have brought to the table and I realize that I could have probably saved money just by relegating that to prostitutes.
I have promised myself to not date till boards are over, but the voice in my head is telling me to forgo dating forever because of my past experiences. What do you guys think? I know quite a few of my classmates are either married or have long term girlfriends/fiancees; do you feel that your significant other has made your life better and augmented your ability to perform?
If you have gone on dates with 20 women and still have failed to make it past a couple dates with any of them it really makes one wonder whether the problem is with the women (as you state), or if it is in fact with you... when you are of the opinion that women bring nothing to the table except their ability to have sex, it is no wonder you dont make it past the second date and are unable to convince any women of true quality to go out with you. Your post does a pretty poor job of veiling your underlying chauvinistic attitude, which in all honestly is a lot more likely to be the underlying cause of your struggle to find a meaningful relationship than your assertion that the 20 women you've met all just happen to be "useless parasites".
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