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This isn't true. You have the right to shut down and take time to process. You deserve that for yourself. I'm deeply sorry for your loss and wish you all the best. The MCAT can wait and even if it couldn't, you won't be studying at your best anyways so what's the point? Spend however long you need to with your family whether that's a week, a month, a year, or more. Come back when you're ready - medicine will still be here waiting for you. You banked that year saved on your bachelors for a rainy day and now is that rainy day. You have time!I'm having a very hard dealing with my grief because on one hand I know I can't just shut down
My brother died tragically in the middle of the fall semester when I was taking organic 2, biochem , working full time, and prepping for Mcat to take in January . It was so hard . I couldn’t even go to the funeral ... at first it was hard to study for mcat, but then I realized that weirdly it helped me because those few hours I was studying I forgot about everything . So I found escape in my Mcat prep .Hello all,
My grandmother was hospitalized for almost 2 months in the ICU with Covid-19/pneumonia and throughout her stay, it was like a roller coster in terms of emotions. However, yesterday she rapidly declined and my family and I made the tough decision to end her care to allow her to pass away peacefully. I also just began studying for the MCAT, but I have no interest or motivation to continue studying for a long time because of my grandmother's death. She was incredibly proud of me for not only following my dreams to be a doctor but also because of the fact that this coming spring, I will be graduating 1 year early with my bachelor's degree. Because of this, I know she wouldn't want me to stop or give up and it's not like I've lost my passion for medicine, but it's hard to keep going when it feels like you're world is falling apart around you.
All this to say, I'm having a very hard dealing with my grief because on one hand I know I can't just shut down but on the other hand, I feel I deserve the right to properly grieve. I'm hoping for advice, maybe from someone who has been in a similar position, on how to get my head back in the game. Thank you.
Very sorry to hear of this.Hello all,
My grandmother was hospitalized for almost 2 months in the ICU with Covid-19/pneumonia and throughout her stay, it was like a roller coster in terms of emotions. However, yesterday she rapidly declined and my family and I made the tough decision to end her care to allow her to pass away peacefully. I also just began studying for the MCAT, but I have no interest or motivation to continue studying for a long time because of my grandmother's death. She was incredibly proud of me for not only following my dreams to be a doctor but also because of the fact that this coming spring, I will be graduating 1 year early with my bachelor's degree. Because of this, I know she wouldn't want me to stop or give up and it's not like I've lost my passion for medicine, but it's hard to keep going when it feels like you're world is falling apart around you.
All this to say, I'm having a very hard dealing with my grief because on one hand I know I can't just shut down but on the other hand, I feel I deserve the right to properly grieve. I'm hoping for advice, maybe from someone who has been in a similar position, on how to get my head back in the game. Thank you.