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Hello everyone,
I'm 29 years old, mother of 3 (ages 3-9), and married. For quite sometime, I have wanted to pursue medical school. I thought I would come on the non-traditional forum since there might be some of you in the same position, or that have been in the past. Reading what I have read, it seems as if there may be years where you miss out on everything. To be honest, I'm ok with being away from my kids at times, but I'm not sure if I just want to miss out almost everything that they are doing for years. If I'm calculating right in my head right now, I believe I will be 43 when my youngest graduates high school. An option is always to wait until my kids are gone, but that seems like a bad time to start medical school and going in tremendous amount of debt. I guess I'm looking for some advice. Will there be times when my kids will feel like I'm never there for them? From what I understand, OBGYN rotations and clinicals can be quite intense, and rightfully so, but what I'm worried about is my kids feeling like I'm never there for them for an extended period of time. I don't know if anyone has any advice, can talk about their own experiences, or if anyone has been in the same boat. It would be nice to get a little perspective from others who are either going through something similar or who have already been through it. Thanks!
I'm 29 years old, mother of 3 (ages 3-9), and married. For quite sometime, I have wanted to pursue medical school. I thought I would come on the non-traditional forum since there might be some of you in the same position, or that have been in the past. Reading what I have read, it seems as if there may be years where you miss out on everything. To be honest, I'm ok with being away from my kids at times, but I'm not sure if I just want to miss out almost everything that they are doing for years. If I'm calculating right in my head right now, I believe I will be 43 when my youngest graduates high school. An option is always to wait until my kids are gone, but that seems like a bad time to start medical school and going in tremendous amount of debt. I guess I'm looking for some advice. Will there be times when my kids will feel like I'm never there for them? From what I understand, OBGYN rotations and clinicals can be quite intense, and rightfully so, but what I'm worried about is my kids feeling like I'm never there for them for an extended period of time. I don't know if anyone has any advice, can talk about their own experiences, or if anyone has been in the same boat. It would be nice to get a little perspective from others who are either going through something similar or who have already been through it. Thanks!