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I have been wondering about this lately. It probably started in my research methods class. We are talking about how being in college could delay the amount of time it takes you to get through the identity formation stage of erikson's psychosocial develop. The professor said that he thinks that people who go to grad school could finally move onto the next stage as late as 30 years old. I combine that idea with looking at my brother and his friends, who are about two or three years older than me (24 or 25).
They are all working at their careers, getting married, buying houses, having kids. What is strange to think about, is that if i go to grad school and become a doctor, i would be wrapping up college at the age of 27 or 28. That is just college to. That is saying nothing about getting a career nailed down and all of the time it takes to do that. It is just kind of strange to think sometimes, that while many people my age are settling down and really diving into to life, i am planning on being college for many more years. Right now the idea of buying a house or starting my career or having kids is not tempting but to think that i will be doing many of the things people my age are doing right now, in maybe a decade, seems kind of shocking when i think about it. I guess another aspect of that is that it would be the first time in my life that my path has really deviated from people my age. You know there is so much work and so many concerns about just applying to grad school that it makes me wonder what things are like when you actually get there.
I suppose i should ask, do you ever get the feeling you are delaying your life by becoming a doctor?
They are all working at their careers, getting married, buying houses, having kids. What is strange to think about, is that if i go to grad school and become a doctor, i would be wrapping up college at the age of 27 or 28. That is just college to. That is saying nothing about getting a career nailed down and all of the time it takes to do that. It is just kind of strange to think sometimes, that while many people my age are settling down and really diving into to life, i am planning on being college for many more years. Right now the idea of buying a house or starting my career or having kids is not tempting but to think that i will be doing many of the things people my age are doing right now, in maybe a decade, seems kind of shocking when i think about it. I guess another aspect of that is that it would be the first time in my life that my path has really deviated from people my age. You know there is so much work and so many concerns about just applying to grad school that it makes me wonder what things are like when you actually get there.
I suppose i should ask, do you ever get the feeling you are delaying your life by becoming a doctor?