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i am wondering if doctors typically have many friends within the field. do they? on grey's anatomy the attendings there don't seem to have any friends.
I don't. I get to the hospital before sunrise and come home to an empty apartment after sunset. Then I do it all over again the next day. I've alienated all my classmates except for a few and even they're too busy with their own thing anyway to hang out much. It's OK though, this is how all the old school surgeons rolled and they went out as legends. It'll be worth it.
i am wondering if doctors typically have many friends within the field. do they? on grey's anatomy the attendings there don't seem to have any friends.
i know it happens a lot in engineering, because everyone has a different vision and want to do things their own way. in House TV show they seem to have a lot of heated debates too.
Please don't believe ANYTHING you see in Grey's Anatomy.
That goes for House too, as much as I love the show.
I get to the hospital before sunrise and come home to an empty apartment after sunset. Then I do it all over again the next day.
But I thought internists could do brain surgery and residents do their own lab work and radiology.
I have to say, it bugs me that everytime they show the intestines in House, they are never attached by peritoneum
so do doctors get to hang out with their friends?
so do doctors get to hang out with their friends?
...and residents do their own lab work and radiology.
What are "friends"? Are they a kind of people?
So I've heard. You are better off with the pharmaceutical reps. They aren't really friends but they are just nice to you and bring you free stuff. Few friends will ever treat you that good.
I wish they were allowed into my hospital. The usually bring good free food (better than the student orgs anyway).
Wait until you're a resident, then the real ass-kissing begins.
As a lifelong hospital brat who's been using "doctor" (read "pharmaceutical") pens since elementary school, I look forward to it.
In my experience, the pharmaceutical reps kiss up to the med students when they are around also. I think they're trying to win our favor early on
They can sure try, the women are pretty attractive. WOOF.
In my experience, the pharmaceutical reps kiss up to the med students when they are around also. I think they're trying to win our favor early on
Friends pretty much only slow you down. They really cut into your study time.
I don't. I get to the hospital before sunrise and come home to an empty apartment after sunset. Then I do it all over again the next day. I've alienated all my classmates except for a few and even they're too busy with their own thing anyway to hang out much. It's OK though, this is how all the old school surgeons rolled and they went out as legends. It'll be worth it.
When will the rest of the world realize that doctors are normal people??
We eat, crap, pee, have friends, some smoke, drink, do drugs...most have sex, others masturbate, many look at porn. We mow yards, clean houses, watch TV, and yes, we sometimes shop at WalMart!
I do. Many from college, grad school, med school, residency and fellowship. Of course, they are spread out across the country.
As a more mature adult, you typically have fewer friends than the gang you hung with in college, regardless of the career choice, and as people have families and other responsibilities, the time available to spend with your friends dwindles. Here I socialize with surgeons, anesthesiologists, rad oncologists and medical oncologists...basically the people I work with every day. I even know people <gasp> outside of the hospital
Grey's is not supposed to be focused on the attending's lives, so I doubt you see much of what their characters do outside of the hospital, but I'm sure they have friends. Besides....its JUST A TV SHOW.
When will the rest of the world realize that doctors are normal people??
We eat, crap, pee, have friends, some smoke, drink, do drugs...most have sex, others masturbate, many look at porn. We mow yards, clean houses, watch TV, and yes, we sometimes shop at WalMart!
I have lots of friends. About 1/3 of them are in medicine.
thanks for replying, everyone. i guess doctors can have friends after all, but there are docs like Misterioso who do not have friends. i prolly won't have any friends either.
so do doctors fight a lot with their colleagues? say you are having a disagreement with how to treat a patient with another doctor. are there a lot of heated arguments? i know it happens a lot in engineering, because everyone has a different vision and want to do things their own way. in House TV show they seem to have a lot of heated debates too.
That goes for House too, as much as I love the show.
I don't. I get to the hospital before sunrise and come home to an empty apartment after sunset. Then I do it all over again the next day. I've alienated all my classmates except for a few and even they're too busy with their own thing anyway to hang out much. It's OK though, this is how all the old school surgeons rolled and they went out as legends. It'll be worth it.
Excellent post!!!! I especially wanted to point out the bolded to people.
I want to emphasize the bolded portion of the above quoted. I've often heard several indian aunties and uncles talking about how their kids who are in med school have lost touch with so many of their friends because they've been busy with medschool. But they say it in such a way as if to make it sound like this happens more with those in med school then with those who decided to enter the work force right away after college. They have also made it sound like those with 4 year degrees and working have sooooo much of a bigger life. But the truth is when you leave college you really do lose touch with a lot of people regardless of profession.
Both my brothers lost touch with a lot of people they knew in college, especially my eldest brother. They've also focused their friendships mostly around those they work with and also a few people they've known since they were kids. Same with a lot of the other people I know who are outside of medicine.
When will the rest of the world realize that doctors are normal people??
We eat, crap, pee, have friends, some smoke, drink, do drugs...most have sex, others masturbate, many look at porn. We mow yards, clean houses, watch TV, and yes, we sometimes shop at WalMart!
Nothing to do with your post, but rather your signature. You guys look like a cute couple.
Even if you worked only 40 hours a week and had all the time in the world, you'd still have no friends.
This should really say "most masturbate, some have sex".
and of course the occasional beer or two...who cares if you are carrying a fetus.Doctors are busy professionals and like most busy professionals, they have time to have fun on the weekends or after work if they so choose. .....
This should really say "most masturbate, some have sex".
Most accurate show might be Scrubs.