I'm just wondering if it's common for people to hide what specialty they are pursuing or interested in during 3rd year. Why do this?
People dont hide usually, they are usually just unsure or still undecided.I'm just wondering if it's common for people to hide what specialty they are pursuing or interested in during 3rd year. Why do this?
The people gunning for the classic gunner specialities tend to be a bit more low key about it where I went. I think this was mostly for fear of not wanting to look arrogant to classmates or seem disinterested to attendings.I'm just wondering if it's common for people to hide what specialty they are pursuing or interested in during 3rd year. Why do this?
The people gunning for the classic gunner specialities tend to be a bit more low key about it where I went. I think this was mostly for fear of not wanting to look arrogant to classmates or seem disinterested to attendings.
I remember on medicine I had a teammate who was gung-ho ortho. But when the attending asked what he was going into he just said “something surgical, I haven’t decided yet.” The minute you’re say you’re shooting for ortho/NSG/derm/plastics/optho etc, they’ll see every move you make as pandering and grade grubbing.
With fellow students, just making any decisive claim to want to do a hyper-competitive speciality before having step1 back just sounds cocky.
Assuming plastics given your Limberg flap picture?Definitely agree on the hedging before step 1 thing. After that though, I think trying to be vague about it is just kind of annoying and egotistical (See: People who went to Harvard saying "I went to school in Boston"). I'm going for a surgical sub, and after I had my surgery rotation and was confident in that decision, I always told people the real answer when they asked. I never felt like I got any pushback about it.
Definitely agree on the hedging before step 1 thing. After that though, I think trying to be vague about it is just kind of annoying and egotistical (See: People who went to Harvard saying "I went to school in Boston"). I'm going for a surgical sub, and after I had my surgery rotation and was confident in that decision, I always told people the real answer when they asked. I never felt like I got any pushback about it.
I think the Harvard thing is a bad example because the opposite would be viewed as annoying/egotistical (ie. the student bragging that they went to Harvard). I went to a similarly ranked school and always told people the city I went to school in as well because I didn't want to be labelled as the "Harvard" or "Yale" guy which a lot of people end up doing.
Also, if someone doesn't want to tell you what they're interested in then just leave them alone? Everyone falls on a spectrum on how open they are with certain things. They're clearly being vague because they don't want you to know for xyz reason as others have stated. I'm sure the people that do need to know or the people they're comfortable telling DO know.
I'd start calling it annoying/egotistical when it's nearing residency app time and they're not worried about how they'll be evaluated during MS3 rotations anymore and know exactly how competitive their application is for their desired specialty.
I think the Harvard thing is a bad example because the opposite would be viewed as annoying/egotistical (ie. the student bragging that they went to Harvard). I went to a similarly ranked school and always told people the city I went to school in as well because I didn't want to be labelled as the "Harvard" or "Yale" guy which a lot of people end up doing.
Also, if someone doesn't want to tell you what they're interested in then just leave them alone? Everyone falls on a spectrum on how open they are with certain things. They're clearly being vague because they don't want you to know for xyz reason as others have stated. I'm sure the people that do need to know or the people they're comfortable telling DO know.
I'd start calling it annoying/egotistical when it's nearing residency app time and they're not worried about how they'll be evaluated during MS3 rotations anymore and know exactly how competitive their application is for their desired specialty.
Eh. You've gotta own it and just answer the question when someone asks. Otherwise you turn into Toofer from 30 Rock.I think the Harvard thing is a bad example because the opposite would be viewed as annoying/egotistical (ie. the student bragging that they went to Harvard). I went to a similarly ranked school and always told people the city I went to school in as well because I didn't want to be labelled as the "Harvard" or "Yale" guy which a lot of people end up doing.
Eh. You've gotta own it and just answer the question when someone asks. Otherwise you turn into Toofer from 30 Rock.
See, the first paragraph is the egotistical part - people think it's SO special that they went to Harvard that they "don't want to JUST be the Harvard guy". If somebody outright asks where you went to school, then you should tell them without trying to be fake humble about it. Similarly, people who think it's so special that they're applying to derm or ortho that they act intentionally vague about it seem much more egotistical than somebody who just outright says "I'm going to applying to ortho" when asked.
I was talking about the Harvard/Boston thing. I agree with you about the specialty question.Or maybe you don’t want everyone knowing your business or stereotyping you based on the specialty you’re interested in.
I was talking about the Harvard/Boston thing. I agree with you about the specialty question.
I understand not wanting to say "Harvard" because people will look at you differently, but if you say "Boston" then the next question is "oh, which school?" and you still have to say it, plus they infer that you thought they couldn't handle hearing that you went to Harvard.
It's not bragging if somebody asks you. Sure, if you're bringing it up all the time it's obnoxious. But if somebody point blank asks "Where'd you go to school?", it's more annoying to try to hide it.I do know one person who goes there, and he doesn’t like to say the name of the school because he is afraid people will think he’s bragging.
This exactly.I was talking about the Harvard/Boston thing. I agree with you about the specialty question.
I understand not wanting to say "Harvard" because people will look at you differently, but if you say "Boston" then the next question is "oh, which school?" and you still have to say it, plus they infer that you thought they couldn't handle hearing that you went to Harvard.
These were the funniest. Some people saying from day 1 they wanted to do neurosurgery, ortho, cardiothoracic surgery and by the time M3 rolled around, they changed either due to step score or something else.Most people were normal about what they wanted to go into and no one cared
that being said, we did have one guy in our class who was probably the most obnoxious person on the planet and let everyone know he wanted to do plastics. He would bash other specialties and say things like “oh I’m going to practice family med when I retire from plastic” on our group page. (Yeah ok bro Bc primary care is just something you can do after not doing it for 30 years). He did bad on boards, rubbed preceptors the wrong way, and spent 10s of thousands auditioning at places he would have no shot at. I don’t even think he applied GS back up and if he did it was at places he had no chance at.
He soaped into a surg prelim at a terrible place since he did not know his limitations.
otherwise people were pretty normal. He got what he had coming.
I mean, you don't owe people an explanation of your career goals. Just tell people you are undecided and move on.
Yeah I agree. Nothing wrong about going into any specialty. Just don’t bash other ones. Especially when you aren’t even goodThese were the funniest. Some people saying from day 1 they wanted to do neurosurgery, ortho, cardiothoracic surgery and by the time M3 rolled around, they changed either due to step score or something else.
I think it's all how you say it. Some people were just obnoxious about it.
I was talking about the Harvard/Boston thing. I agree with you about the specialty question.
I understand not wanting to say "Harvard" because people will look at you differently, but if you say "Boston" then the next question is "oh, which school?" and you still have to say it, plus they infer that you thought they couldn't handle hearing that you went to Harvard.
It's not bragging if somebody asks you. Sure, if you're bringing it up all the time it's obnoxious. But if somebody point blank asks "Where'd you go to school?", it's more annoying to try to hide it.
These were the funniest. Some people saying from day 1 they wanted to do neurosurgery, ortho, cardiothoracic surgery and by the time M3 rolled around, they changed either due to step score or something else.
I think it's all how you say it. Some people were just obnoxious about it.
This is pretty realistic honestly. My point is that it's better not to beat around the bush and act coy knowing you're going to say it either way.Couldnthandleit: So which school do you go to?
Me: I go to a school in Boston.
Couldnthandleit: Which one?
Me: Uh...I go to-
Couldnthandleit: Harvard???
Me: Nnnn-yes
Couldnthandleit: OMG, you must be so rich, and a genius, can you pay for my school, you're so cool, how did you get into Harvard, what's it like asdfdsadkjljfdas
But it's not purely around the end result. There is a huge difference between the person who wants to announce something about themselves and the person who doesn't want an interaction to be colored by one small detail. If you've been engaged before, you know how tiring it is to get the EXACT SAME QUESTIONS every time someone finds out. You just stop bringing it up.This is pretty realistic honestly. My point is that it's better not to beat around the bush and act coy knowing you're going to say it either way.
Oh, totally. I never bring it up, not only because I don't want to talk about it, but also because I don't want to be the guy who brings it up. It still comes up, though, and over the years I've learned to just answer the question and get on with it.But it's not purely around the end result. There is a huge difference between the person who wants to announce something about themselves and the person who doesn't want an interaction to be colored by one small detail. If you've been engaged before, you know how tiring it is to get the EXACT SAME QUESTIONS every time someone finds out. You just stop bringing it up.
Oh, I guess we are in agreement here lolOh, totally. I never bring it up, not only because I don't want to talk about it, but also because I don't want to be the guy who brings it up. It still comes up, though, and over the years I've learned to just answer the question and get on with it.
Same goes for specialty choice. The guy who goes around telling everyone he's going to be a cardioplastic surgeon is obnoxious. When he's asked about it, though, I don't think we should consider it obnoxious for him to answer honestly if he wants to. But in this case, you can say "something surgical" or "not sure yet" without being disingenuous.
Edit: Oh, did you mean engaged to be married? When I was engaged we never really brought that up either except to tell our friends and family. But we still frequently got questions about it, and yeah, they were tiresome, but what can you do except answer them?
I think my kids are pretty open about what they want.I'm just wondering if it's common for people to hide what specialty they are pursuing or interested in during 3rd year. Why do this?
When I was an M1-M2 I knew pretty well that I wanted something competitive, but would constantly try and convince myself I wanted something less competitive due to the fear of going all in on something that may not turn out and come M4 everyone would think “oh he matched x? I thought he wanted y? Must have not done well enough”. Which realistically was just me caring too much about what other people think.
not to mention when you do own up to it the usual conversation goes something like this:
“So what specialty are you thinking?”
“*insert competitive specialty*”
“Ohhhhhh you know thats really competitive right?!”
-_- no i didnt know that, it’s actually only on my mind 10-12 times a day when im busy convincing myself im not good enough
I’ll be an M1 in August and I’m leaning towards the surgical side of medicine. As of right now my top choice is most likely orthopaedics, but staying open to all other surgical and non surgical specialties for that matter. I will most certainly remain low key about my interest in ortho because I don’t want to come off as gunnerish.
Yeah, exactly this. A guy in my class was talking about how he scored some research that would count for Ortho, derm, and optho. Loudly.Honestly, just saying you want ortho doesn't make you gunnerish. What people hate is being annoying about it, like the ones that announce every day of the week that "I'm pre-ortho. I started reading FA before classes started" Like shut up, no one cares lol. You can gun hard for these fields without being irritating.
Also, a gunner is someone that tries to spread misinformation or do things to screw other people over in order to get ahead. It's not someone that just works really hard or is obnoxious about wanting a competitive specialty.
Embrace your inner Machiavelli! In each new rotation, say that you are undecided, but you find THIS specialty oh-so interesting. You want the Residents/fellows/attendings to think that you are the naive, easily-influenced med student who could be potentially converted by their clinical acumen (lol). This will make them put in extra effort to make their specialty seem cool to you. Their increased investment in your education will make them like you more. Them liking you more = better evaluation.So I was careful what preceptors I told what as someone going into psych. My first rotation after psych I had an internal doc write me off completely when I said that was my interest and it was reflected on my only mediocre Eval through 3rd-4th year. From that point forward all the old school docs I told I was undecided and the younger ones I told the truth. It worked out for me and was sad I needed to do that, but ya know you do what ya gotta do.
Embrace your inner Machiavelli! In each new rotation, say that you are undecided, but you find THIS specialty oh-so interesting. You want the Residents/fellows/attendings to think that you are the naive, easily-influenced med student who could be potentially converted by their clinical acumen (lol). This will make them put in extra effort to make their specialty seem cool to you. Their increased investment in your education will make them like you more. Them liking you more = better evaluation.
Play the game...
I'm free now.Embrace your inner Machiavelli! In each new rotation, say that you are undecided, but you find THIS specialty oh-so interesting. You want the Residents/fellows/attendings to think that you are the naive, easily-influenced med student who could be potentially converted by their clinical acumen (lol). This will make them put in extra effort to make their specialty seem cool to you. Their increased investment in your education will make them like you more. Them liking you more = better evaluation.
Play the game...
I won't look down on someone who lies about this. I can certainly see situations in which a student might lie and it doesn't affect me so why should I care? I have definitely witnessed the effects of students saying that they are pursuing radiology and surgery negatively affecting their rotation experience and feedback.
There isn't a right answer though, IMO. I had no problems being firm about what I wanted to do but I brought it 100% every day and knew my **** third year and was congenial. I knew I would face extra scrutiny in some situations. This is true for any field you choose. There is certainly luck involved (much like grades) but I don't think you get that kind of leeway if you say radiology on your FM rotation and aren't a good student. They are going to think you are performing poorly because you think FM is stupid and are uninterested which is far worse than just seeming like a weak student. That's a deathknell for your evaluation and for how you are treated on the rotation. Put effort in and the effects will be minimal even with the old attendings.