You know plenty well what the point of my post was, and nitpicking at it is unnecessary. If you want me to spell it out for you, letting things that CAN BE FIXED stay the way they are because "it's just the way it is" is a bad excuse.
And again, if you can provide a good reason as to why keeping applicants in the dark for forever or deflecting questions like if the wait list is moving or how many people are in it are beneficial for anyone, please share with everyone.
I get your point, but the ridiculous hyperbole about cancer etc. is unnecessary and makes people less, rather than more, sympathetic to what you are saying. Using caps lock and being condescending doesn't further anything.
I don't believe I ever claimed that the admissions system is perfect because I don't think that. I went through it last year, and I know it sucks. My classmates and I talk about how much it sucked at times and how glad we are to be done with it.
I don't know why a school wouldn't tell people whether or not a waitlist was moving, though I understand why they might prefer to keep the actual numbers to themselves. Generally speaking, I think schools should be able to be honest with applicants about where their file is in the review process and should let applicants know as soon as they're no longer being considered, but a lot of the complaints on SDN have an air of entitlement that I think tends to rub people on the other side of the admissions table the wrong way. Implicit in much of this (i.e. why can't the school be available to hold my hand and talk me through why I got rejected even though they have to reject 7500 applicants every year) is the idea that admissions staff sit around smoking cigars all day and laughing about how they're keeping applicants in the dark. Not only that, everybody seems to think that admissions offices have unlimited staff and money. Most people in admissions that I have met work damn hard every year and take their jobs very seriously (not to mention many of them have numerous obligations outside of the admissions office); if I had a bunch of premeds implying I couldn't do my job and was lazy and just taking their money for kicks I probably wouldn't be super open-minded to changing either.
Another thing to consider is that from an admissions standpoint I'm not sure what schools gain by being more transparent or publishing more about their processes. The more info they put out there the less flexibility they have to do what they want and bend guidelines as they see fit (i.e. say they published GPA cutoffs and had an application from someone they really wanted but couldn't accept because they were 0.1 below the cutoff, and I also think this flexibility is why admissions offices like to keep some files open for most of the cycle before making final decisions since you never know how the cycle is going to shape up). Personally I'm sort of ambivalent on this point, but I see why they might be reluctant to publish hard and fast rules. I also think that the nuts and bolts of what it takes to get accepted somewhere are pretty well known (academics, MCAT, ECs), and not as nebulous as people on SDN try to make them sound. Regarding applications not getting acted on for months at a time, I think admissions offices could probably agree to accept that they might be closing files they wish they hadn't later in the interest of making the process a little kinder to applicants.
Overall, I think the reality lies somewhere in the middle. There's certainly room for improvement (and probably at some schools more than others), but by and large the admissions people do their jobs and most people who should be in medical school end up there. Any process that accepts less than 100% of the overall applicant pool will leave some people pissed off. It's important to separate the inherent unpleasantness of a system that rejects more people than it accepts (and discounting the large number of people who should probably know better than to apply, all schools still end up rejecting plenty of well qualified people) from legitimate gripes that could improve the system for everyone without putting an undue burden on already overworked admissions offices.
Sorry for the stream of consciousness novella, I've got some essays to do that I'm putting off as long as I can.