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This is my first thread, so i hope it's worth reading... if not feel free to move along, but i was hoping for a little clarity and advice from my fellow SDNers. Well here it goes, so for the past year i've been doing research at NIH as an IRTA and I truly love what i'm doing. Well not so much the mundane everyday stuff that comes with a 9-5, but the research is incredible, the people i've met here have been great, the opportunities here one-of-a-kind and of course being in DC i mean what else can i say. However my time here has been a bit challenging financially, but i've made it through hard times, I've definately matured a lot and am ready for a second year. Also i think there is a good chance my research project may get published and i'll be an author...something that i know is rare and i just very feel fortunate to be where i am.
So that's me, now my family, not to get into dramatics but i come from a single parent household, and left my mom and sis in Cali to come out here to do my indepent thing because i've been there my whole life and wanted a major change...but now my mom is laying on the guilt trip pretty thick...saying that i need to be home now, and i can do research there, or better yet i really should be working a real job to save $$ for med school.
My mom has always been a voice of reason, so i really take her advice to heart, but i'll be the first in my family applying to med school and although they try to help they really don't know what it all takes...heck i'm still learning. I'm just confused, I already told my PI i'm ready to stay a 2nd yr, but now with this i feel like if i stay i'm being completely selfish and not thinking of the family. Has anyone else had to deal with this? I guess going home won't be so bad, i just don't want to feel like i'm missing out on my opportunity here, or that i have to take a step back from my path to make everyone else happy....
Any advice, or words would be appreciated...
So that's me, now my family, not to get into dramatics but i come from a single parent household, and left my mom and sis in Cali to come out here to do my indepent thing because i've been there my whole life and wanted a major change...but now my mom is laying on the guilt trip pretty thick...saying that i need to be home now, and i can do research there, or better yet i really should be working a real job to save $$ for med school.
My mom has always been a voice of reason, so i really take her advice to heart, but i'll be the first in my family applying to med school and although they try to help they really don't know what it all takes...heck i'm still learning. I'm just confused, I already told my PI i'm ready to stay a 2nd yr, but now with this i feel like if i stay i'm being completely selfish and not thinking of the family. Has anyone else had to deal with this? I guess going home won't be so bad, i just don't want to feel like i'm missing out on my opportunity here, or that i have to take a step back from my path to make everyone else happy....
Any advice, or words would be appreciated...