I am by no means a math person (I was a philospophy major) and yet I managed to get an A in Physics with calc. Here are a few ideas (good luck!)
1. Form a study group - this is a MUST. Like doing crossword puzzles, physics works better when you can bounce ideas off of others. Do 80% of your studying in this group.
2. Work TONS of problems. Repetition is key, soon you will be happy to see the ramp problem or the ball throwingn problem because you have seen it so many times before.
3. Realize that you are NOT Newton. This means, you do NOT have to invent or discover some new way to do a problem, you just have to figure out which simple way you already know can be used to find the solution. In other words, learning when to apply which formula is the challenge, and this ability comes from #2 above.
4. Make sure that you never leave a lecture without understanding what was just lectured on. Meet with the instructor immediately after class if possible to get clarification on concepts that are not clear. Try to ask yourself about every 10 minutes or so DURING lecture "What did I just learn?" If you can not answer the question, make a note that you need to clarify whatever was just covered.
5. ASK QUESTIONS IN CLASS. This is the hardest advice to follow, but believe it or not, if you are not understanding something, it is VERY likely that there are a few others not understanding as well. You paid good money to take the class, so get what you paid for and MAKE THE INSTRUCTOR EARN HIS/HER PAY by answering your question. There are no stupid questions in Physics.
6. Use the lab to help you visualize abstract concepts. So often, labs in the sciences are excercises in following a cookbook like recipe and jotting down some meaningless results to get points for a lab write up that teaches you nothing. RESIST THE TEMPTATION TO JUST WHIP OUT YOUR LAB REPORTS. Use the lab as a means of tying together the lecture with the real physical world. You will then find that during a test, you can use your memory of a lab to help you find a solution to a test question. Work on your lab write up DURING the lab so that all formulas and equations are actually tied to what you are doing.
7. Recognize that there is not THAT much calculus in calc based physics. You can safely just understand the general concept of a differential or an integral without the ability to do super tricky manipulations of them. Most of these manipulations have already been done, and you just need to memorize them (see rule #3)
8. Good Luck, let us know how you are doing!