Hi all,
This has been on my mind for sometime and I did not want to hijack the other thread currently in circulation on making friends.
I'm a Junior bio major and am a little more than midway through this premed journey. What's really starting to get to me is the lack of relationships I've built in college, both concerning friends and significant others. For the longest time I was able to say to myself, "don't worry about it, I'm in college for one and only one thing...to set myself up for a satisfying job helping others where I can choose where I'd like to live and live comfortably." Lately, however this has not sufficed as I've realized that life (even it is 4 or 5 years) is about enjoying it, meeting good people and forming relationships with them. I'm worried that this will carry over to medical school, particularly with women, as their are not as many available as their are on an undergraduate campus.
I'm frustrated because I know that if I was out on the field playing more, I'd be scoring more. Going to bed alone every night is just getting a little bit old. I'm not about to change the road I've been traveling on steadily for the past 2 and half years, but I just wanted to reach out to others who are dealing with this same problem, along with those who've dealt with it before and may shed some words of wisdom on it.
Bear in mind, my living conditions are not good for being premed. I'm in a fraternity house with a majority of business majors who drink on average 3 nights out of the week. Lots of guys are hooking up with girls and I say, "****ttt, that could totally be me, but I'm not drinking tonight cause I have studying to do tomorrow." Just a ****ty situation. End rant and thanks.
This has been on my mind for sometime and I did not want to hijack the other thread currently in circulation on making friends.
I'm a Junior bio major and am a little more than midway through this premed journey. What's really starting to get to me is the lack of relationships I've built in college, both concerning friends and significant others. For the longest time I was able to say to myself, "don't worry about it, I'm in college for one and only one thing...to set myself up for a satisfying job helping others where I can choose where I'd like to live and live comfortably." Lately, however this has not sufficed as I've realized that life (even it is 4 or 5 years) is about enjoying it, meeting good people and forming relationships with them. I'm worried that this will carry over to medical school, particularly with women, as their are not as many available as their are on an undergraduate campus.
I'm frustrated because I know that if I was out on the field playing more, I'd be scoring more. Going to bed alone every night is just getting a little bit old. I'm not about to change the road I've been traveling on steadily for the past 2 and half years, but I just wanted to reach out to others who are dealing with this same problem, along with those who've dealt with it before and may shed some words of wisdom on it.
Bear in mind, my living conditions are not good for being premed. I'm in a fraternity house with a majority of business majors who drink on average 3 nights out of the week. Lots of guys are hooking up with girls and I say, "****ttt, that could totally be me, but I'm not drinking tonight cause I have studying to do tomorrow." Just a ****ty situation. End rant and thanks.