so i just had a meeting with 3 doctors (friends), trying to discuss with them what school i should choose. Afterwards i called my MOM (lives in Russia - i am an immigrant).
I was trying to explain to her the difference between primary care schools and research schools, and why a lot of people believe that if you want to be a specialist of some sort, you REALLY should consider going to a school that specializes in research, because it will give you more experience in the narrower specialty, and give you a chance to do research that is crucial for competitive specialities (try applying to Neurosurgery, for example, if you dont have any research experience).
to which my mom said.... that research does not matter at all, unless you want to do only research after you finish medical school. She said that an idea that research would even matter sounds ridiculous. [honestly, i see her point]. She also added that if i want to be emergency medicine physician (which is what i am considering at the moment, while keeping my options open, of course), i should go to a primary care school, where i can learn how to be a good primary care physician, good OB/GYN, good pediatrician, and all those things combined would make me a good EM doc..... And she added that these are all the specialties that matter anyway, and i will be a better specialist (EM), if i focus on primary care... And i should forget wasting my time on research during medical school...
i LOVE my mom..... but i think i should stop asking her for advice when it comes to medical school
)). Right now she thinks that i am making the biggest mistake of my life choosing research schools vs primary care school, despite the fact that this school has a much more impressive match list in the specialties that i am considering (also, as a Biochemist i DO love bench research). Anyway... I am giving up
)))