How is your side of the story not being told, Hernandez? Have I deleted any of your posts? Self-defense is the obvious benefit of carrying a weapon; you've been trumpeting that from the start, so spare me the contention that I'm shouting you down in this thread.
I'm baffled where you got the impression that I was stating in any way that my views were being repressed, they were being ignored repeatidly when I keep pointing out that there are holes in your arguments that you started initially.
The largest benefit is intuitively obvious; surviving a lethal confrontation is not a small thing, but the story doesn't end with the last round you fire, and people should know that. I'm sorry you don't like my pointing it out, but the fact is that you will NOT be greeted with a ticker-tape parade and a "citizen of the year" medal from the local Chamber of Commerce.
I agree, people should be aware that there could be consequences, but I fail to see why worrying about the consequences if the whole reason and objective of the use would be solely to save your life. Surviving is a damn good benefit and is not over shadowed by any consequences that could happen in any means.
The simple fact is that some of us have simply reached a different conclusion than you. We're not constraining your rights... simply choosing something different for ourselves.
I'm not admonishing you for choosing something different, I'm admonishing you for putting forth your ideas as the end all of the discussion and presenting it as if it were the only valid choice. And I did criticize you for basing your conclusions on the fear of what might happen afterwards, especially if the situation which we're talking about truly was the epitome of saving your own butt from harm. I don't know about you, but i'd much rather be alive to raise my family and be with my wife than dead because I was too afraid of loosing my job and my career. I'm not of the mind set and I'll be up front, while I love my career choice, my family comes first. And I can not put my family first if I'm dead.
I have the advantage of having personally seen the process go wrong. As a former instructor (long before I was an ER doc), I've had students use their weapons in self-defense. One in particular was prosecuted by an activist DA, nearly bankrupted his business defending himself, and went through a year or so of complete hell. After all that, it took the jury only an hour to find him innocent of the second-degree murder charge (Massad Ayoob assisted in the defense), and he spent 100K defending himself from the criminal charges alone.
I'm assuming you're saying Ayoob was a witness for the defense, yes? And this again is a good point, and it ties in that people should know their state laws. In my home state, or the states surrounding me, this has never happened, I know of 8 or 9 cases in the last 8 years back in my home state of self defense shootings, and only 1 was brought to trial and rightfully so. That particular story made national news because he chased them off his land and then was involved in a car chase when he ran them off the road and shot them, he deserved what he got.
I'm glad you live in a civil-immunity state, but many don't, and if you don't think civil suits are common after self-defense shootings, then you should ask Mr. Ayoob. There's a lawyer attached to every bullet we fire.
While I respect Ayoob's articles and expertises, he's an alarmist on many things. Ayoob is of the mind set that you shouldn't carry reloaded ammunition or exotic calibers because you'll be sued for that, you shouldn't do this and that. And while many of his points are valid,
I'll throw you this bone: If you're lucky, you might not be charged or civilly sued (if you're fortunate enough to live in a state with such pre-emption)... but I'd argue that the odds that you, the "rich doctor," will be legally attacked in every way possible by the family are far greater than the family simply saying "aww shucks... paw paw got killed" and walking away. If, as an ER physician, you don't already know the pain of being a lawsuit target, then there's nothing more I can say to convince you... I hope you never have to learn the hard way.
Agreed, but just to emphasis, this is
highly state dependent. Anyone who wishes to carry should be familiar with their state laws on the subject.
That's a totally unnecessary questioning of my integrity.
And this is worse than questioning how I practice medicine how? You made an example that had nothing to do with this conversation and your own example could be said of everything that you've stated in this thread, so I ask, what was the purpose of bringing pt interaction into the thread? You're either trying to back peddle and deny that everything you had said had been negative or you are deluding yourself by reinventing what was said in this thread prior to that comment. So I'll break it down, you came in with nothing but negative comments and opinions that carrying was universally a bad idea, I countered, you countered still nothing but bad, etc, etc, then you bring in this comment, to try and make it seem as you are being honest and discussing both sides of the argument and giving readers choices, this is simply false, you never endorsed any benefits until this last post.
What benefits? Beyond the fact that you're still alive (which is certainly great), there's a whole mess 'o bad. Psychological costs of having pulled the trigger (unless you're a sociopath), financial costs, job difficulties, vengeful relatives and friends of the deceased, etc.
If there are a bunch of benefits that I'm missing, please let me in on them.
Of course, you're right, we should just keel over and let the people who are willing to use violence do whatever the hell they wish. That's a great way to run the country and live life. As Patrick Henry asked, "Is life so dear, or peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery?" I'm not of the opinion that it is, and I definitely do not think that peace is so sweet that I'd not defend my family and myself for the fear of retaliation. "Resistance to sudden violence, for the preservation not only of my person, my limbs, and life, but of my property, is an indisputable right of nature which I have never surrendered to the public by the compact of society, and which perhaps, I could not surrender if I would." John Adams
So yes, I loath this argument, that you'd rather die (because that's the situation I'm talking about, the one where the use of a firearm to defend yourself is undeniable as proper) than face the difficulties afterwards. And if you're not willing to defend your life with violence because of fear of what
might happen afterwards, why should anyone else, even the police? But, if you were to tell me that you're a pacifist, especially given your background, I'd not have a problem with that, because have the ability to make that choice, there is an old saying that goes something like "you're not really a pacifist if you don't know how to make war" or something to that effect, but that doesn't seem to be the argument that you're making.