Hey nylee,
(is that a streak of that famous JH competitiveness coming out?
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Sorry, didn't mean to offend! I really tore my hair out over this decision and it makes sense for me - I'm not judging anyone here.
Couple of clarifications:
You wrote: "who said that Baltimore was that crappy of a place to live??? I've been in Baltimore for the past five years for undergrad and now for med, but I don't think it's that bad. PLUS, none of my classmates have been complaining."
Baltimore seemed like a crappy place to live for me for a couple of reasons
#1 I don't feel like participating excessively in the fossil fuel economy (and I don't have the extra money lying around) so I don't own a car. That means I need to live somewhere (i.e. in town) where I can shop without having to drive and I can walk or take public transportation to school and to go out. That felt pretty much impossible unless I lived in the tiny cinderblock dorms in Reed Hall which at age 29 I feel too old to do. SF's public transport is excellent and it's easy to walk everywhere. I also really like living in urban setting where you get to meet your neighbors who might do something completely different from you - or at least see them.
#2 I didn't feel safe walking around in several areas - despite the fact that it was broad daylight. People looked at me like I didn't belong and I didn't like that. In certain areas not a single car had a hubcap on it. I really didn't feel safe - I would get tired of having to watch my back all the time. I walk around alone at night in SF and don't worry about it.
#3 I get the impression that the city is very segregated compared to SF, really divided into poor Black neighborhoods and affluent White neighborhoods. As a middle class mixed race woman with a South Asian boyfriend I didn't really have the impression that I fit in anywhere in the urban community.
Now all the above things make Baltimore unattractive to me - it's a question of life-style. There are some things I do not feel like sacrificing for the sake of getting a degree from the school with the slightly better reputation.
You wrote "SF may be the "cooler" and "posher" place to live, but I wouldn't discount Baltimore at all. It's close to D.C., New York, Atlantic City, and east coast sites..."
I never called SF cooler or posher, I wouldn't describe it like that if given the choice... I don't think it's that posh at all (thank god, otherwise it wouldn't be that fun), in fact GQ mag says that it's the city with the worst dressed women in the US
I agree that the NE urban concentration is really seductive - it was a hard choice I tell you - but in the end I fgured that it was my daily life that mattered more, I didn't think that I was going to have that much time to go out during school and I figured my vacations would probably be spent elsewhere.
You wrote "What I would be complaining about is the EXORBITANT cost of living in SF--I don't understand how you think that taking out some loans for Hopkins would differ that much from "hanging out" in an expensive city, paying an arm and a leg for an apartment, for meals, for drinks...etc. etc."
If you had read my previous message you would have noticed that I spoke about the relative cost of the 2 schools - that includes everything (tuition, housing, food, etc). Hopkins' first year budget as determined by fin aid is 51,000, UCSF's is 33,000, including everything, with $925/month rent as estimated by the financial aid office (which an excessive estimate, I'm currently paying $730 in rent for a nice place vs Hopkins' budgeted estimate of less than $400/month in rent which won't get you much except for a dorm room).
You wrote "Plus, if you LOVE frisco so much, wouldn't it be worth going to Hopkins and almost GUARANTEE a residency in SF or Stanford?"
Ummm, I don't remember saying I LOVE (I'm not that big on capitals myself) Frisco - and please, don't call it Frisco - and Stanford is in Palo Alto not in SF but regardless your argument doesn't hold up. 2003 residency match lists: Hopkins placed 5 people at UCSF (with close to half of JH's grads staying at Hopkins, it's an incredibly in-bred place), UCSF placed 35 of its grads at UCSF (and 3 at Hopkins, including one at the Wilmer eye institute, one of the most coveted residencies around, so be careful dissing UCSF, one of your residents may have graduated from there).
Don't assume I didn't think hard about this decision.
Best of luck at Hopkins.