Like I said, hind sight is 20/20. For the record, I don't think she set out to cheat on me (It's too private). I was far from blameless, even reckless or un-asian in my pursuit. I took her from her boyfriend at the beginning. Even if it was a fair competition by the "all is fair in love and war" standards, it should have warned me. But I was mesmerized by her beauty, and in many ways I got what I deserved.
For men, we physically mature earlier but mentally mature later, opposite of what females do. In an objective evaluation, we are the result of the evolutionary drive to generate the highest survival rate for our off-springs. In an objective evaluation, it make sense for me to fight to possess her (and as many as possible), it also made sense for her to cheat to gain the best opportunity to have viable offsprings.
I want to make it clear that, tt's not a battle of men vs women, but a case of buyer beware. We are all responsible for what we sow.
To put an end of my private life. I am a director of pharmacy with lingering regrets. She failed to get her boss to divorce his wife, and the last I heard from a friend was that she moved back to Hong Kong. I hated her once, but time has tempered it, as it's a fault of our own making. We both got what we deserved, and such is life.