Rob,
Thanks for your posts, I respect your opinion.
I also realize that you DID preface your initial comments with a warning to "not take it personally," however you then went on to critique my values, life choices, personal goals, and self respect all in one post.
How could I NOT take that personally? I can FULLY understand you having a difficult time with those who take advantage of government programs, and even perhaps those who do so while in a professional program such as dental school. That's fine and because we disagree isn't the end of the world.
I don't, however, appreciate the direct and personal insults included in your statements. My initial post was merely answering the question of the OP. It is an undisputable fact that some students at all dental schools are partaking in some form of governmental aid (be it food stamps, cash assistance, subsudized housing, Medicaid, etc.). Your response directed solely and pointedly at me was, to be honest, a bit hurtful. It indeed did make me quite sad to have somebody who knows me only through an internet forum question choices that are very personal and dear to my heart.
You, nor Lestat who questions why I'm having another child, know of my wife's health conditions. To be frank, not everybody can get pregnant at any time they choose. We are inclined to take what we get. Certainly everybody has a different situation, and there ARE those who unrightfully abuse government assistance. Rather or not *I* am one of those (in your eyes) probably ought to be kept to yourself.
For what it's worth, we don't eat out, I'm wearing the same shoes right now that I wore three years ago, our newest piece of furniture is a loveseat from 1987 (Goodwill special), and our idea of a big spending spree is buying a $4.99 T-shirt for my son at Target. We can't take out any more private or federal loans (we already checked into it PRIOR to applying for assistance).
I'm more than open to hearing your opinions, but go easy on ME and my family, will ya?
Edit: And yes, I certainly CAN still gripe about taxes when I'm out in the profession, simply because I don't agree with where our tax dollars go. It has NOTHING to do with assistance programs, I just don't appreciate the other ways the $$ is spent, both on a federal and local level. If there was a box to check for "helping those who need it," I would gladly pay into it--but I'd rather the spinning heads in Washington get none of it to use as they see fit.