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your SO is long distance....and things are changing....my bf and I have been together 2.5yrs, and the last year of it being long distance....now this coming year will also be long distance and he just started school in boston....I think I can deal w/the long distance thing one more year, but Im uneasy with how he moved to a bigger place with students everywhere, going to be busy w/school etc....plus I have a new job this fall so there's lots of change at once...im terrible with change....I totally trust him and I have absolutely no reason to doubt him, but its still hard...he has been extra reassuring w/me because all of this change and the "unknown" is bothering me, and he's said some important things basically saying we'll always be together...like he is stuck living in a dorm this year, and I hate the fact that there are 50 other people living w/him that I dont know, and half are girls....some of you may think this is crazy, but maybe because my ex (~4yrs ago) cheated on me....after that I was so hurt, its taking some practice to learn to fully trust again....its hard but getting better....I applied to schools in boston for next year....I hope I get in, cause after 2yrs, this long distance crap is really killing me....Eh, I should try calming down somehow...how are you guys doing?