Question to non-traditional students: How do you stay motivated?
Currently, my life plans mean that I won't be out of medical school until I'm 33. And while sometimes I am motivated and excited, other times I just wake up scared and wonder if I should just give up and try to be satisfied with what I have. I worry that I'll go through all this effort and get rejected. I worry that even if I don't get rejected, I'll be so old that I just become one of those people who never leave school.
It doesn't help that my family gives me an almost daily assault asking why I am thinking of giving up a good job at the UN to pursue medical school. Home for Easter, I just got a 2 hour lecture from my mother. My sister goes on and on about how I'll spend half my life in school, how I just can't accept what I have, etc. My dad repeats the "half your life in school" thing, and they all add that I better not come to them for money.
How do you all keep motivated at the start of this long journey, especially if friends and family unanimously all just discourage you?
Currently, my life plans mean that I won't be out of medical school until I'm 33. And while sometimes I am motivated and excited, other times I just wake up scared and wonder if I should just give up and try to be satisfied with what I have. I worry that I'll go through all this effort and get rejected. I worry that even if I don't get rejected, I'll be so old that I just become one of those people who never leave school.
It doesn't help that my family gives me an almost daily assault asking why I am thinking of giving up a good job at the UN to pursue medical school. Home for Easter, I just got a 2 hour lecture from my mother. My sister goes on and on about how I'll spend half my life in school, how I just can't accept what I have, etc. My dad repeats the "half your life in school" thing, and they all add that I better not come to them for money.
How do you all keep motivated at the start of this long journey, especially if friends and family unanimously all just discourage you?