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I'm only a premed and was wondering if you guys ever had to deal with a rude superior or classmate.
Sorry if it seems like I'm ranting but...I'm asking because today I had to work with someone, a classmate, on a lab. Before the lab even started, I asked nicely if I could just borrow a single sheet of paper from her notebook and this person looked so annoyed by this. (Its just a piece of paper, right?)
We were supposed to share some cultures with our partners but I mistakenly started looking at her other cultures (I didn't know which was which) that we weren't supposed to share. In hindsight I should have asked first, but she told me in a very condescending way "can I help you?" and after I told her that we were supposed to share these, she told me again very condescendingly to look at the instructions. We hadn't even started the lab at that point, so its not like I messed up her results or anything like that. A few people were looking at us, so I apologized and continued on with the lab using my own cultures since their were extras.
BTW, she came in late and was also rude to the prof when she explained why she was late, so it wasn't just me.
This is probably nothing compared to what happens in med school, but just how important is it to have thick skin?
Also, would you say her behavior uncalled for?
Sorry if it seems like I'm ranting but...I'm asking because today I had to work with someone, a classmate, on a lab. Before the lab even started, I asked nicely if I could just borrow a single sheet of paper from her notebook and this person looked so annoyed by this. (Its just a piece of paper, right?)
We were supposed to share some cultures with our partners but I mistakenly started looking at her other cultures (I didn't know which was which) that we weren't supposed to share. In hindsight I should have asked first, but she told me in a very condescending way "can I help you?" and after I told her that we were supposed to share these, she told me again very condescendingly to look at the instructions. We hadn't even started the lab at that point, so its not like I messed up her results or anything like that. A few people were looking at us, so I apologized and continued on with the lab using my own cultures since their were extras.
BTW, she came in late and was also rude to the prof when she explained why she was late, so it wasn't just me.
This is probably nothing compared to what happens in med school, but just how important is it to have thick skin?
Also, would you say her behavior uncalled for?