I am married with two children under the age of 2 and no rich relatives whatsoever. I am looking at the cost of obtaining my PsyD and I would like to know if anyone out there has gotten one while supporting a family. As a Christian I would like to attend a Christian school but only 6 universities offer this program. The cost of a private school is somewhere around 90K or more paid over the course of 3 years and stafford loans only cover 47K a year which leaves 15K a year for cost of living. We have lived very frugally in the past but I don't think we could make it on 15K a year. Any ideas?
Hello,
I think the question your posing is worthwhile and concerning. As a parent, your decisions not only effect you, but also your family. In my opinion, family is the biggest priority, making this dilemma of the utmost importance.
In regards to the financial related concerns, I would suggest steering away from PsyD programs in general. Not because they are inferior in any way, but rather, they do not offer the same level of financial assistance for their students. Even those who do help students more than is typical for PsyD programs, Baylor and Rutgers, are not as supportive as most fully funded PhD programs. Bearing that in mind, I think it would be wise to limit your choices to fully funded PhD programs.
In regards to the religious issue, I think you are limiting yourself a great deal here. Clinical psychology is an academic and professional discipline that you should learn independently of your own religious beliefs. I think you will find that clinical psychology professors will advocate for this orientation towards learning even at universities with religious affiliations (i.e., Loyola, Villanova, Catholic University, etc). To be clear, however, I am not suggesting that your religious views cannot inform, aid, or even be brought into your clinical work later on in your career. I just think you will find it valuable to better understand clinical practice first, before you start integrating it with other perspectives.
When taking into consideration you family, finances, and religious views, I have come up with three suggestions that I think are worth considering. This will echo some of the previous advice given on this forum.
First, consider looking at fully funded PhD programs that will provide you and your family with the best quality of life. This includes not only finances, but location, distance from relatives, quality of the school systems, access to airports/trains, and proximity of places of worship.
Second, look for fully funded PhD programs that have professors interested in research that involves religion and spirituality. On an individual level, this might be a great fit for you. You might be able to mesh your interests together from the jump and get paid for it. Better still, if your partner and children might be happy there, you might be sitting really pretty.
Third, I think you should consider pastoral counseling programs, especially those that DO NOT require a doctoral degree. Not everyone's life circumstances are amenable to this endeavor. To be honest, MA programs limit the amount of money needing to be invested (i.e., loans), typically allow you to work (i.e., even less financial burden), and also have the shortest turn around between graduation and becoming licensed. Given that you have a family, the faster you can generate an income with your degree, the better.
That is my .02
Good Luck!!!!!!!!