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Hello, I'm a nursing student hoping to become a PMHNP in the future. I'm also currently in therapy and the experience of being on the patient side made me realize a challenge I might face in my future practice. I'd love to hear your opinion on my observation =)
So, I was seeing a really smart LMFT who was helping me a lot with some family/behavioral issues. He, along with a family studies course I took at my school, suggested that it's important for me to pay attention to my relationships within my family of origin in order to make sure I'm not projecting those problems onto other relationships. He, and this course, emphasized the generational pattern of abuse and other family problems, and how breaking the cycle means in part paying attention and not ignoring/neglecting relationships within the family of origin. From a family systems perspective, I imagine these statements aren't too controversial. However, when I went to see a psychiatrist (a pretty anti-overmedication/psychotherapy-oriented one), she suggested that "if talking to my close family member about difficult issues doesn't get me anywhere, maybe I should just stop doing it."
Now, the specifics of this event aren't what's important, but rather the clear contradiction between what my LMFT told me and what my psychiatrist told me. Both of them were really educated, successful and upstanding therapists. Yet, they had completely different advice. In the field of psychology, what does a provider make of these contradictions? Is it possible to stay well-informed on all developments in all perspectives (cognitive-behavioral, biological, family systems, narrative, etc...) and to even know when your advice is contradictory to that of another perspective? Should you be obligated to inform the patient/client about the different perspectives out there before proceeding with therapy? Meh, maybe it's not such a big deal, I just didn't know what to make of it. Any thoughts are appreciated!
So, I was seeing a really smart LMFT who was helping me a lot with some family/behavioral issues. He, along with a family studies course I took at my school, suggested that it's important for me to pay attention to my relationships within my family of origin in order to make sure I'm not projecting those problems onto other relationships. He, and this course, emphasized the generational pattern of abuse and other family problems, and how breaking the cycle means in part paying attention and not ignoring/neglecting relationships within the family of origin. From a family systems perspective, I imagine these statements aren't too controversial. However, when I went to see a psychiatrist (a pretty anti-overmedication/psychotherapy-oriented one), she suggested that "if talking to my close family member about difficult issues doesn't get me anywhere, maybe I should just stop doing it."
Now, the specifics of this event aren't what's important, but rather the clear contradiction between what my LMFT told me and what my psychiatrist told me. Both of them were really educated, successful and upstanding therapists. Yet, they had completely different advice. In the field of psychology, what does a provider make of these contradictions? Is it possible to stay well-informed on all developments in all perspectives (cognitive-behavioral, biological, family systems, narrative, etc...) and to even know when your advice is contradictory to that of another perspective? Should you be obligated to inform the patient/client about the different perspectives out there before proceeding with therapy? Meh, maybe it's not such a big deal, I just didn't know what to make of it. Any thoughts are appreciated!