100%, make sure they're giving you a monthly or biweekly breakdown patient by patient of collections, outstanding balances and your split of this to make sure they aren't screwing you. If they can't provide this easily, they aren't efficient at collections and don't know their own finances or are actually trying to screw you.
There is an interesting caveat to this. Most billing departments are not as well versed as we are at tactfully setting boundaries. Considering the patient population we deal with, it's not surprising there are incidences of avoidance, denial, deception, and acting out. This is no different in billing. Some examples I ran into where an average or even above average billing department is not sure what to do and they may feel awkward/avoid enforcing the collection:
-Patient says they will call back later to pay/check insurance/get their HSA/whatever excuse. Then they don't.
-Patient gives the stonewalled look and says things like: I don't have a deductible/I never had to pay at ___ clinic/that must be out of network/whatever excuse. Patient evades paying.
-Patient says they paid or are getting to it-->they let the balance accrue to infinity. Cases of severe borderline personality will lie (they are used to departments being so separated), at my office we call them out and the facial expression is priceless.
-Patient evades all calls, emails text messages but keeps somehow popping up on your schedule
There's nothing wrong or "bad" about collecting as the provider during the visit. As a matter of fact, if I did not do this, I'd have a much smaller patient panel and even those long term patients are not consistent with paying on their own. They are more likely to trust us as providers and wanting to work with us since we provide care. Collecting on my own was how I exceeded 400k profit my first year in solo practice. That was pretty much the secret. That and efficient claim tracking software.
When the discussion gets awkward I just say things like "I do have a pdf of your insurance policy here and your in network rate does show that you have a deductible. Unfortunately we're both bound by your insurance terms and by law I am to collect at the insurance determined rate [or it literally constitutes insurance fraud]. However, you can feel free to talk to your HR department about if they offer other plans and/or HSA funds as part of your benefit." Yes, patients will start to push boundaries and ask for you to go at a lower price. Some patients still don't trust it even after the claim is processed and I end up having to show them the EOB. Sometimes I tell them we can call the dang insurance company on threeway because the denial is so strong. But if this ends up being a recurrent pattern, I get ready to transfer the patient out because it takes up too much time.
This too becomes a learning opportunity because it is a real life setting where people have to deal with financial realities, problem solving, versus asking us as providers to in a way, financially enable them. Now, if they truly do not have the means, there are other community resources and that is what they are there for.
I personally send all bills via text, email and land mail. At least twice a month. 80% of the recipients never, ever, respond. But they keep booking appointments. So we collect when we see them next. New patients are initially more evasive, but they learn fast. They either pay or they disappear. Otherwise it's easy for non-paying patients to stay on the panel forever and you're essentially giving free care.
It is also wise to note, this is not specific to private practice either. If one works in a hospital system or community health center, yes, there is some funding. But much of the income is still reliant on what is collected from insurance and patients. My colleagues work in hospital systems and they see tons of patients and make less than a well run PP. I think a part of this equation is that patients don't pay their bills there either and/or inefficiency with the insurance claims system. But the provider should not be the one absorbing the cost. Although many systems find it easier to just make us do more visits. The tight follow up is the key.