How/where do you find ppl to date?

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I have never had a boyfriend. I am not hideous. I sometimes go out. HOw come i have never been asked out on a date? Where do you guys go to find dates? How does one get a dating life? I am so tired of seeing friends et into relationships while i never have a male to talk about .
 
I'll date you, but I do have some high expectations.

3.7+, top 20 university, 33+ MCAT, and a unique EC activity is always a turn on.
 
The fact that someone called ponybreeder is asking about my sex life terrifies me.
 
I am not hideous.

This is a very vague description of your appearance. For example, I find this hideous:

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But I find this to be so-ugly-it's-cute:

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And this is adorable:

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And this is just uhhhhhh:

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So you see, all but the first fall into the category of "not hideous"
 
i am average looking. brown hair, brown eyes, average built.
i dont have many friends.
i like to go eat with friends.
i dont know where to meet males 🙁 and my friends dont have any guys they can introduce me 2.
 
i am average looking. brown hair, brown eyes, average built.
i dont have many friends.
i like to go eat with friends.
i dont know where to meet males 🙁 and my friends dont have any guys they can introduce me 2.

If you're actively seeking a bf, you probably wont find one. Join an organization or 2...go to their events when they go out for fun...do something you really enjoy. I'm sure there has to be at least ONE guy that enjoys the same thing.
 
maybe i am boring. how can i not be boring any ideas?
but honestly, i know so many boring looking girls in relationships that its hard for me to believe only pretty looking ones have guys.
 
Who goes on official 'dates' anymore?
 
maybe i am boring. how can i not be boring any ideas?
but honestly, i know so many boring looking girls in relationships that its hard for me to believe only pretty looking ones have guys.

obviously not only pretty girls get guys. You just need to be more social and find someone that likes what you do. Only going out to eat every once in awhile is like the bare minimum of getting yourself out there. And you're not really meeting anyone new are you? Eating out means you're most likely just with people you know. Try some new things
 
Maybe you dress boring? But seriously, best thing to do is join a club (no anime/warcraft/harry potter clubs though).
 
i guess im not pretty enough for any guy to look at me even 🙁 or acknowledge me
 
I have never had a boyfriend. I am not hideous. I sometimes go out. HOw come i have never been asked out on a date? Where do you guys go to find dates? How does one get a dating life? I am so tired of seeing friends et into relationships while i never have a male to talk about .

According to the laws of physics, chemistry and biology: females do not need to "work" to get a date beyond possessing the characteristics of being a "female". Even if you were hideous and even if you were the only person that did not know this reality as factual -- there would still be a surplus of guys trying to get with you under certain reaction conditions [perhaps an ethanol-laden one or maybe without hv].

In other words, my dear, riddle me this: if thou hath not ever had a beau, why does thou keepth oneself continually tucked away breeding ponies?

In other words, my dear: Go to a bar. Stay until closing. Smile and wink. Problem solved, you will be ordering your monthly pack of ortho tri-cyclen before you know it. 👍
 
You ask this question but don't post pictures? Might as well describe color to a blind man.
 
Maybe you should hang out with your friend,her boyfriend, and one of his friends that they will help pick out for you. I think that's one of the ways for a girl to get with a guy other than being somewhere where a guy can go up to you. You could always go up to a guy that you're interested in. Then there's the internet and match.com type of pages. I'd stay away from a bar. I hate talking (meaningfully, asking where the bathroom is or bull**** talk is ok) to people that I don't know that are intoxicated off of a drug. You're basically talking to the drug.
 
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Maybe you dress boring? But seriously, best thing to do is join a club (no anime/warcraft/harry potter clubs though).

hey now, you could always join the quiddich team... co-ed sports are an underrated way of meeting people..

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/has never played quiddich
//though I kind of secretly want to. 😳
 
If you just want any guy, you just have to look hot. If you want quality, you're going to have to be a quality person yourself.
 
Make the initiative. If you like someone, ask them out.
 
hey now, you could always join the quiddich team... co-ed sports are an underrated way of meeting people..

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/has never played quiddich
//though I kind of secretly want to. 😳
I don't see why people do this. They might as well play water polo or lacrosse or soccer.
 
They that URM holding the sign on the left is kind of cute. However, this screen is very tiny - so perhaps someone else can confirm... Quiddich, it is.
That's a negative.
 
I have never had a boyfriend. I am not hideous. I sometimes go out. HOw come i have never been asked out on a date? Where do you guys go to find dates? How does one get a dating life? I am so tired of seeing friends et into relationships while i never have a male to talk about .

i am average looking. brown hair, brown eyes, average built.
i dont have many friends.
i like to go eat with friends.
i dont know where to meet males 🙁 and my friends dont have any guys they can introduce me 2.

Dating tip # 1, stop saying "males." It sounds like you are trying to acquire one of us for an experiment.
 
A girl unable to meet a guy sounds ridiculous... even ugly girls can bat their eyes at a group of dudes, and at least one of them will be all over her. Ladies have it easy.
 
Dating tip # 1, stop saying "males." It sounds like you are trying to acquire one of us for an experiment.
Dating is kind of like an experiment. The scientific method can actually be employed. Ask a question: is this person right for me? Background research: this person has qualities that I like. Hypothesis: this person is a good match for me. Test: the date. Analyze and draw conclusion: Personalities didn't match Result: hypothesis nullified.

:zip:
 
Dating is kind of like an experiment. The scientific method can actually be employed. Ask a question: is this person right for me? Background research: this person has qualities that I like. Hypothesis: this person is a good match for me. Test: the date. Analyze and draw conclusion: Personalities didn't match Result: hypothesis nullified.

:zip:
:laugh: fair enough, I think eharmony and match.com have a similar algorithm.
 
hey now, you could always join the quiddich team... co-ed sports are an underrated way of meeting people..

image.JPG


/has never played quiddich
//though I kind of secretly want to. 😳

Wow, didn't know these teams exist. What do they do simulate bludgers, and more importantly, what do they use for a snitch?
 
Dating is kind of like an experiment. The scientific method can actually be employed. Ask a question: is this person right for me? Background research: this person has qualities that I like. Hypothesis: this person is a good match for me. Test: the date. Analyze and draw conclusion: Personalities didn't match Result: hypothesis nullified.

:zip:

Now, don't forget to actually say, "Hypothesis nullified" out loud during the date the exact moment that you realize the personality mismatch.
 
My U has a medieval fighting club complete with costumes, fake horses - you name it.

And then there's the foam sword club 🙂
 
do you have any guy friends?
 
A girl unable to meet a guy sounds ridiculous... even ugly girls can bat their eyes at a group of dudes, and at least one of them will be all over her. Ladies have it easy.

It's not that ridiculous, actually.


And let's be serious, has OP had a sex change since that last racist thread he started? At least make a new account before you try to troll us, homeboy.
 
It's not that ridiculous, actually.


And let's be serious, has OP had a sex change since that last racist thread he started? At least make a new account before you try to troll us, homeboy.

I'm with you on this. I took a look at some of the OP's threads and came to the conclusion that he/she is, in fact, trolling hardcore.
 
Im getting an autistic vibe from this one
 
It's not that ridiculous, actually.


And let's be serious, has OP had a sex change since that last racist thread he started? At least make a new account before you try to troll us, homeboy.

Yeah, you're right. Some ugly women have horrible personalities that even a six pack won't fix :meanie:.
 
first off, how old are you? do you drink? maybe you need to be a little less shy and more flirtatious.....Try to interact more with guys that you talk to. If you don't talk to many guys, start. introduce yourself, find common ground, flirt, make jokes, and eventually one of them will ask you out.

not saying you have to drink or be a complete slut, just make an effort to be more sociable and outgoing. Guys will soon follow, especially if they've known you and can see that your actively trying to "put yourself" out there.
 
Wow, didn't know these teams exist. What do they do simulate bludgers, and more importantly, what do they use for a snitch?

The NY Times had an article about the championships. They use dodgeballs for bludgers (though I think medicine balls would have been better) and the snitch is a neutral person who runs around wearing football flags (or worse, a sock hanging out of their pants...not kidding about that sadly).
 
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