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I fell in love with my interviewer . . .

Discussion in 'Pre-Medical - MD' started by Dr. Czech, Feb 14, 2002.

  1. Dr. Czech

    Dr. Czech New Member

    Feb 7, 2002
    anyone have an interview were you were naturally attracted to the interviewer? i'm not a pervert or anything, but I felt there was "that" type of chemistry with one of my interviewers. obviously, she was relatively young. we had so much in common, and she was helluva cute.

    we didn't flirt with each other of course, but I felt there was a mutual connection. independent of getting into that school, would it be inappropriate to contact her in the near future and maybe ask her out for dinner?! <img border="0" alt="[Lovey]" title="" src="graemlins/lovey.gif" />
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  3. racergirl

    racergirl Senior Member 7+ Year Member

    Apr 29, 2001

    I guess it would be OK to ask for a date, but wait until the end of the process!! Asking before then wouldn't be appropriate...
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  4. otter

    otter Senior Member 7+ Year Member

    Oct 31, 2001
    You'd better get in first before you take any chances like that. If you make such overture while you're being reviewed or on the waitlist, and the interest was totally not mutual, that could really be a wrong move.

    Quite frankly, I don't understand how you could begin having romantic thoughts about your interviewer DURING the interview. But I suppose that's a good thing... On the other hand, when I interview, the only thing I have on my mind is how bad I want to get in, how nervous I am, how to best phrase my resonses.
  5. panda01

    panda01 Member 7+ Year Member

    Feb 5, 2002
    New Orleans, LA
    Why can't I get hottie interviewers? My interviewers at both UColorado and Eastern Virginia were wrinkly men, at least 75, and on oxygen. Do you have any idea how distracting that little "pppffft" of oxygen is every 2 minutes?? :)
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  6. Dr. Czech

    Dr. Czech New Member

    Feb 7, 2002
    Definetly, I would never think of contacting her during the review process! That's why I asked if it would be appropriate in the NEAR future; after the process is done with and I'm either rejected, or accepted. It's a great school, but I wouldn't be hurt if I get the big R.

    I'm not delusional, I'm sure you've all had instances were you've connected with someone else on a "higher" level; you just feel it!
  7. vyc

    vyc Senior Member 7+ Year Member

    Jan 20, 2002
    i'm not even sure i would do that afterward.
    how old was she? was she a student? i'm confused.
  8. snowballz

    snowballz Senior Member 7+ Year Member

    Apr 29, 2001
    Get used to that sound of O's. Vents sound alot worse.

  9. choker

    choker Senior Member 7+ Year Member

    Jul 30, 2001
    at harvard, i was flirting with this drop dead gorgeous (im talking fashion model hot) blonde bombshell of a med student. two hours later, she taps me on the shoulder and informs me that she's my interviewer. we interview for 2 hours and i have the best interview experience ever. she was so hot.
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  10. If you get in and she is a faculty member there, it would not be a good idea.

    If you get rejected, you can ask to shadow her and you will get to know her better. You may even get to have lunch with her. Eventually, you can ask her.
  11. bomback

    bomback Senior Member 7+ Year Member

    Jan 16, 2002
    choker, i hope she's my interviewer when i go to harvard.
  12. imtiaz

    imtiaz i cant translate stupid Moderator Emeritus 10+ Year Member

    Jul 26, 2000
    New York, NY
    Like others on this thread. I say go for it, but only after you've recieved word about your status there. <img border="0" alt="[Laughy]" title="" src="graemlins/laughy.gif" />
  13. jargon124

    jargon124 Senior Member 10+ Year Member

    Oct 2, 2001
    One of my interviewers was absolutely gorgeous. She was a child psychiatrist. Oh man, I get smiley just thinking about it. Needless to say, I don't now and didn't then have the guts to do anything about it - but it made for an interesting 45 min. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="wink.gif" />
  14. LizardKing

    LizardKing Veteran Member 7+ Year Member

    Aug 6, 2001
    ahhhhh, beautiful, smart women.
  15. jargon124

    jargon124 Senior Member 10+ Year Member

    Oct 2, 2001
    Oh yeah! I forgot to add, I was accepted at the school, so she must of seen something she liked! :D <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="wink.gif" />
  16. Street Philosopher

    Street Philosopher freebird 10+ Year Member

    Aug 10, 2000
    ann arbor
    i was attracted to my premed counselor!
  17. Coalboy

    Coalboy Senior Member 7+ Year Member

    Oct 14, 2001
    East Providence, RI
    A couple of my student interviewers have been very attractive women. I second the comment on smart women. The best kind there is. Unfortunately, that usually means they are smart enough to know not to be with me. :)
  18. Crazed

    Crazed Member 10+ Year Member

    Dec 2, 2001
    GO FOR IT!!!!!! After all, if she is an interviewer for med school, chances are that her dating pool (either b/c of time constraints, etc.) is rather small. I wish I could have had an interviewer I was actually attracted to!! Of course, I would wait to take any action until you heard the decision from that school. Otherwise, you may ruin your chances in both aspects of this situation. Good luck and keep us posted.
  19. dbeast

    dbeast That's cool I guess 7+ Year Member

    Feb 3, 2010
    The hospital, duh
    I don't know why this came up as "related topic" to a thread I was in... but yeah. I'm gonna bump it for the lulz. Sorry, mods. Please discuss.
  20. DoctorWhoo

    DoctorWhoo 2+ Year Member

    Aug 7, 2012
    Classic. I hope OP is now married to said interviewer... That'd be awesome
  21. plumazul

    plumazul ☮, ♥, & ♫ 5+ Year Member

    Dec 15, 2011
    Nice find :=|:-):
  22. Amba

    Amba 5+ Year Member

    May 21, 2011
    Did OP matriculate at that school? Did he ever ask her out? Was @choker serious about the interviewer at Harvard? Or was he trolling? If not, where is this woman now? So many unanswered questions...
  23. LilEngineThatCould


    May 5, 2014
    This sounds like it should end with, "Next time on Dragonball Z" lol

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