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I don't think I've felt happy in the last six months and it's really kinda starting to ruin my passion for learning, medicine and life in general.
If I do end up staying at this school, do you think med schools would be okay with the fact that I ever transferred in the first place?
Agree with this. Feeling like that for half a year is something you need a physician to check out. Withdraw from school until this is under control. Good luck!Depression is not an illness that can be treated on an anonymous message forum. Get to your school's counseling center right now.
Let's put it another way: if you had blood in your urine, would you go see your doctor? Depression is as real an illness as whatever causes hematuria. Go get help NOW.
Thank you for your advice. I understand how med schools would look at it in a negative manner and I imagine it would hinder my chances somewhat...
If I do end up staying at this school, do you think med schools would be okay with the fact that I ever transferred in the first place?
Yeah, this is what scares me the most. I tend to not realize how the situation might be until I'm in it. I may not be as homesick as I was the first time, because it won't be all new to me, but I doubt the anxiety will go away until I learn how to cope with it, and that takes time...
Adaptability is a core competency. Address your demons. There is no shame in getting professional help.
Thank you so much. Another thing I wanted to share is that my crush is at College #1. I know this is really stupid and all but I like him so much that I am willing to pay all this money and do whatever I can to be near him. But obviously this is naive thinking considering I don't even know my crush very well or if he even likes me back.
So yeah...I actually feel like my world has turned upside down as well. I'm going through (what I bet) has got to be one o the worst feelings in the world. It's a mixture of unbearable longing, sadness, anger, jealously and disappointment at myself for making SUCH a unbelievably stupid decision. It's hard to believe that things will ever get better
Can anyone please give me some advice on this part of the issue? I would really like to stop crying every day.