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I would say I never did any kind of drug because I really didn't. Wait, I don't even smoke or drink
Wanna cookie?
They aren't going to ask this unless they have a reason to ask it, and it better damn well be on your app if it is, otherwise that's a pretty darn clear invasion of privacy and grounds for claiming discrimination.
Never EVER admit to drug use. Seriously. EVER!!!
This can not be stressed enough. If any drug use is ever on your record, there will come a time it will bite you. Maybe not in the admission process, but someday when someone wants to marginalize you or call your decision into question, this will come up. You DO have a permanent record. Why would you want to voluntarily add this?
As somebody mentioned, honesty is not necessarily a virtue in business (or most other life situations). I sure as hell would prefer to hire somebody who does what they have to succeed rather than somebody who voluntarily jeopardizes his endeavour.
and yet WE CAN'T ADMIT WE DO SMOKE WEED!!!!
gosh, and so many SDNers were so hot (in the tell or don't tell thread about seeing people smoking after an interview) to tell us smoking weed is cool, not harmful, is widely done and therefore not objectionable, not something anyone needs to tell authorities about, blah blah blah, and yet WE CAN'T ADMIT WE DO SMOKE WEED!!!!
ROFLMAO I guess you can be cool or you can be honest, but not both
It's never a good idea to admit to any crime in an interview. So no, you shouldn't admit it because in the interviewer's eyes (and under the law) you shouldn't be doing it, so it will hurt your application. As much as you'd like to think "everyone does it" the fact is that isn't really the case and you are just trying to justify illegal behavior when you say that. Not that most people care nor do I think any interviewer would ever ask, but there are some things you need to keep behind closed doors (and with a towel shoved along the bottom of the door).
just to clarify, you advocate lying to the interviewer?
No, just sidestep it. You can avoid admitting to a crime without lying. But it will never get asked.
so if the interviewer asks you "have you ever smoked the marijuana like a cigarette?"
what would your answer be (assuming you have, in fact, smoked the marijuana)?
It's all about making your best impression, and some things better left unsaid. Admitting to drug use will not leave a favorable impression as everything associated with drug use will be associated with you and your application.
Whether or not you think smoking weed is wrong, why would you admit to it on the one day where you should really be selling yourself shamelessly?
Say you tried some weed once while in Amsterdam between flights. That way, your face won't flinch, you won't look like you're hiding anything, it'll put a stamp of honesty on every other answer you give, and you haven't broken any laws or social taboos.
Or, you could just tell the truth.
so why do the drugs?
Go with something deflecting, nonresponsive and matter of fact, like -- "I think I'd prefer to spend this brief interview time discussing my qualifications for your school. Can you tell me about the school's ..."
Am I the only one who doesn't automatically think of abuse or recreation when the word drugs is mentiond?
There's a good chance that I will be asked that. It's a question I could run with because one of my experiences with drugs was catalytic in redirecting my life path. I reacted severely in a never before documented way to a common and long used drug used during a procedure. It left me paralyzed, blind, and determined to get the most out of life. I had a patient's eye view of lengthy differential diagnosis in a crisis situation when the answer doesn't fit the textbooks.
The timing meant that I was unable to do the college admission tests. To get around that obstacle, I dual-enrolled in the CC as a high school senior. I brought my own note-taker and assistant. Friends and family read me the textbooks & notes until I had everything memorized. I used 3D models of molecules and cells, books on tape, anything I could to make the material as complete as possible for me.
It's been a long recuperation, but, except for a few inconsequential reminders, my physical abilities have returned. I could fill an entire interview talking about the medical aspects of my experience, the people who became my mentors, the social aspects, opportunity disguised as adversity, or why I think of my body and mind as being too precious to risk experimenting with recreational drug use or excessive alcohol consumption.
If the question were specifically focused on alcohol and recreational drugs, I'd speak of how I saw it affect my high school friends and people I worked with. I'd speak of head traumas from DUI's, personality changes, and why I decided that I had to part ways from the group.
I think it's a legitimate question. We all have experiences with drugs from popping a couple of ibuprofen for a headache, to antibiotics, to observing the effects of misuse on others.
Ha. Might as well say "Yes, next question."